Thursday, December 29, 2016

ESB and Rogue One

     I was so sad when I heard that Carrie Fisher had died.  I wrote this post before her passing.

Written on 12-22-16.

     It’s Belinda and Amanda’s birthday today.  They are 49 now.  Belinda and I have just over one full month where we will be the same age, but I will ruin that by turning 50 on January 29th.  We are up at the cabin home again, and Becca’s boyfriend Matt is here, too.  The twins are stirring after taking a nap together here in the living room.  A was on the floor (her typical spot) while B and Danielle shared the couch.  
     Danielle now has the couch all to herself.  Eric and Kyle might come up later, but it will probably be Kyle all by himself.  Eric is busy getting his newest Big-O store going in Farmington, and he hopes to have it open by the end of this month.  We got to tour it yesterday, and it’s on track to be open by the date he has in mind.  We are going to help him on Tuesday by moving a bunch of tires into place onto the new wooden storage racks he is building.
     In other news, we celebrated Christmas in Lakewood early by combining the opening weekend of the new Star Wars movie, Rogue One, with our extended family Christmas.  It was great!  The movie was...

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Two Atypical Work Day Events and Two Bonus Birdies

Written on 12-14-16.

     I am writing this from the Chili’s Restaurant in Espanola.  I am here on business, but this is the first chance I’ve gotten today to just…stop.  I had to charge my phone with the Escape at El Rito Elementary today, and that killed the battery, although now I think it was close to dead anyway.  When the kid (two years out of high school) at the Auto Zone tested it, he said it was bad, so I bought a new one and they installed it.  A manager helped, and they also spliced a new cable for the negative post (lots of corrosion).  Fixed.
     I had to deal with a massive bloody nose at the school today, too.  A 3rd grader got bopped with a basketball, so I offered to take him inside to the nurse, but this school is so small they don’t even have a nurse.  In a real emergency, thankfully, they are able to send kids to the clinic that is next door.  It has been an atypical day, for sure.  
     Danielle drove home today, so I won’t get to see her until tomorrow night after I’m done with this four-day trip to my faraway schools, Ojo Caliente and El Rito.  This weekend, we are going to Denver to watch the new Star Wars movie, Rogue One.  I am so looking forward to that, especially after all of this work that I’ve done lately.  I did it.  I managed to get in all six visits for the schools I’m helping in my second month.
     I also managed to play some golf last weekend.  Bruce and C.J. played on Saturday, and I was able to join them after my monthly meeting for my new CORE job.  Bruce stuck around to play holes #1 through #4, so I could say I played a full nine holes.  I joined them on #14, and they were playing against the Bogey Man.  The goal was +6 they said, and they were at +6, so they were hoping I could help.  I didn’t know how much I could help on this first hole, especially because...

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

60 Birdies in One Year!

Written on 11-16-16.

     Our regular threesome played again today, but everything felt so different from just two days ago.  The fairways were tan and crispy.  The skies were overcast and gloomy.  A biting breeze kept the day from ever feeling like the predicted 60+ degrees.  The golf felt different, too.  Tee shots went farther than expected and lies were tighter due to the harder ground.  It’s amazing what two days can do, but it is just past mid-November.  We’ve been spoiled with this warm stretch of weather lately.  Bruce said it’s only beginning to feel like what mid-October typically feels like, and that was an astute observation.  It’s like the months are off this fall.
     My golf game was back to being “off” again, too, and I was decimated in the “Reverse Handicap” game today.  Bruce beat C.J. and me so badly on the front nine by earning 70 points, so we started over on the back.  Then he trounced us again.  
     C.J. and I battled it out for second place, but his birdie on #16 helped him to earn two holes worth of points and knock me into third and last place.  I didn’t even earn one birdie today to help my mood.  
     On Monday, though, I played...

Saturday, December 3, 2016

Early November Writings in an Early December Post

Written on 11-3-16.

     We head to Lakewood tomorrow for a visit with family, and the reason for this trip is Guy found some really reasonably priced tickets.  I have one meeting for Time to Teach at Foothills Elementary on Monday morning.  Danielle has even decided to make the trip from Las Cruces, but we encouraged her to stop in Albuquerque, and she will probably spend the night at Rich’s, James’s good friend and former college roommate.  He just got an engineering job there.
     I’ve started my new job.  I was given the green light to begin, so I contacted all five of my schools yesterday to get my first visits set up.  I have not set one date yet, though.  I just e-mailed all of them to introduce myself.  
     My biggest news, besides the new job starting, is that I have...

Friday, November 25, 2016

The Isleta Eagle is Revealed

Back to golf…

     So, that round yesterday was another fantastic one.  I was the one who suggested the points game, knowing Bruce typically enjoys this one more than others.  Like I had mentioned, he was ahead after the front nine, but not by much.  He faded on the back, however, getting some double bogeys, and C.J. won the highest number of points for one hole after winning hole #11.  
     This was the hole that we had a bit of a controversy.  The tees were where the ladies’ tees usually are, so we all were faced with a new decision.  Bruce and I chose to go for the green, but his tee shot went right and most likely out of bounds.  Mine, however, headed straight for the green, a smooth and high 3-wood shot that soared over the trees.  I was confident we would find it.  C.J. played for the fairway, and he was the only one who ended up receiving a “real” score.  
     After the three of us spent an overly extended time searching for my ball, I chose to use the “leaf rule” and drop.  From there, I earned a par, too.  Bruce thought C.J. should earn all of the points, though, and I agreed.  So, he earned 21 points on that hole, and it was so high because...

Monday, November 21, 2016

One Hole, Three Players, Three Birdies

Written on 10-26-16.

     I don’t have much time to write.  Belinda and I are treating her parents to dinner as a thank you for their paying a big chunk of one of our medical bills.  We saw that $2000.00 was taken off of Belinda’s bill for her recent hysterectomy surgery, but we thought it was due to an insurance adjustment.  Nope.  It was for a love adjustment instead.  Amanda was the one who ratted them out for us.  I’m glad she did, though.  It will be great tonight to look them in the eyes and sincerely thank them for their kind and wonderful gesture.  I can only hope we can pay it forward someday for our children.  We are blessed.
     Bruce, C.J., and I played 18 holes today. Bruce is mostly done with Rei’s car (he sent pictures in an e-mail), and it looks amazing.  Reilly is going to be thrilled when they drive it to him this Friday.
It was another gorgeous day for golf.  I don’t want the colder, nastier weather to come.  Colder weather, please stay away.  Sigh.  
     Every round has a story or two, and this round was no different.  It started when we all earned birdies on the first hole.  Now that’s something I know has never happened before.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #1-Birdie #53 of 2016

     I like how birdies can be achieved in so many different ways by different players; the variety is endless, and it makes golf a very unique and individualized sport.  
     C.J. drove his ball off the fairway to the right side near some roots.  Then he recovered right back onto the fairway to a spot just before the hills.  After that, he made a pitch to less than four feet to get his birdie.
     Bruce drove his ball onto the fairway, and his second shot sailed to the right of the cottonwood where it stopped on the green below the hole.  He cleaned up with two putts to get his birdie.
I drove mine onto the fairway, left of the cottonwood.  Then my 7-iron put my ball just off the green on the right side.  I chose to putt my ball up and over the hill and onto the green, where it stopped short with about eight feet to go.  I made that next putt, and that is how I got my birdie.

     We agreed to give C.J. a pop on this hole, so he won the hole with a net eagle, but we didn’t figure that out until hole #9.  It didn’t really matter, though, because he chipped in for a par on the next hole after putting his tee shot into the ditch.  So, even if we had pushed the points from #1, he would have won them right back on hole #2.  It turns out he just won them outright without any point pushing.  Make sense?  
     This was a very close competition.  At the end of nine holes, C.J. and I were tied with 24 points, but Bruce wasn’t way ahead like he normally is.  He had 26 points.  

Gotta go to dinner now.  Until next time…

Written on 10-27-16.


     We had a swell dinner, eating at the new Italian restaurant in Farmington.  Even the foodies, Dale and Anna, were happy with our choice.  Dale, Jess, and Belinda ended up reminiscing about the various cars, accidents, and adventures they had when B was in high school.  Anna and I became the fourth and fifth wheels at that point, but it was fun to see them having such an enjoyable time reliving some memories together.  And, we got to do what we set out to do, thank them for their super generosity by treating them to dinner.

Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Life is Rough, More Than 50 Birdies in One Year

Written on 10-23-16.

     Boy, life is so rough right now.  Play golf.  Write about golf.  Play golf again because the weather is phenomenal right now.  Write about it again.  Sigh.  
     Today really was another incredible day for golf, too.  Wow!  Bruce chose not to play.  C.J. chose to wait until 1:00 for me, so I could go to church.  It was the 70th anniversary celebration mass today, and Bishop Wall came to help us celebrate.  It was a beautiful celebration with the Knights of Columbus and our church all spiffed up.  I was shocked when I realized I’ve been a part of that church for close to 25 of those 70 years already.  I’m proud to be a part of this church community.  
     C.J. and I chose to play skins today, and it was a close match, but he ended up being the victor.  I beat him in stroke play by one stroke, 41 to 42, but his two birdies on holes #4 and #6 really helped his cause.  He also earned some crucial bonuses.  He got the bonuses on holes #5, #6, and #7.  On #7, even though he teed off from the reds, he outdrove me by less than a yard.  Those bonuses were the difference.  His final money total ended up being $400,000.00 to my $260,000.00.  On the last hole, I had to earn the bonus and win the hole, but C.J. got a pop on this hole, and we both earned pars, so he got the last of the money and won the match.
I earned three birdies in this round, but only one on the front nine.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #1-Birdie #50 of 2016

     I had very little time to warm up.  I teed off quickly because two guys in a cart were waiting for us to get going.  Despite the fast start, I had a big drive that ended up...

Sunday, November 13, 2016

Caught in a Cat Fight and a New Eagle!

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #18-Birdie #48 of 2016

     This hole was super strange.  I saw the one group of ladies playing in the tournament many holes ago.  I was on #8 when they were on #13, so I thought they would be done by this time, but I slowly gained on them and then I caught them on this last hole.  I saw Shelby looking for her ball in one of the bigger bushes, so I waited to tee off.  I waited and watched.  I played my own solitary version of the poison game.  I waited and watched some more.  I could not see if their carts had gone up the hill to the green yet, so I played some more poison, waited, and watched even more.  
     Thinking I had waited more than enough, I went ahead and teed off.  My ball headed to the left of the trees, so I thought it would be near the cart path and safe from hitting them.  I headed down the hill, and as I walked I spied a yellow and black soccer ball golf ball near a tree just off of the cart path. For some reason, I didn’t pick it up, and then I promptly forgot about it.  I found my ball another fifty yards ahead of that one, but the ladies were on the green, so once again I had nowhere to go for a while.  
     They were so incredibly slow, I decided to kneel down to rest until they finished, fascinated that it was taking them this long.  One girl had to use three putts just to get her ball to go from the left side of the green to the right without having it roll back again.

Written on 10-22-16.

     When they finished, they got in their carts and drove back up the cart path to where I was waiting instead of heading to the clubhouse.  I thought for a moment that...

Thursday, October 27, 2016

My Pretend Golf Championship

     I shot another 95 on our home course today, our home course.  Good grief! I just entered all of my recent scores online, though, and it feels good to just own them.  I am not proud of them, but they are mine.   In the past two rounds with C.J., I did earn two birdies, one today and one the time before.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #8-Birdie #43 of 2016

     C.J. and I were competing in match play, and even though we extended the match two extra holes, I still lost on hole #9, so we called it quits.  
     I definitely won this hole, though.  I attempted to drive the green, and darned if I didn’t almost do it.  My ball was so close to the green, just a few yards away, that I chose to putt it up onto the green to get it close to the hole.  My ball rolled and stopped less than three feet away on its left side.  The hole was cut on the lower tier this time.  I made that putt to narrow the gap with C.J., but it would sadly not be enough on this day.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #13-Birdie #44 of 2016

     Today, we chose to play the G.I.R. game.  Then we played some of the worst golf we have seen at the Aztec Municipal Golf Course since they switched it over to 18 holes.  My consistency has disappeared, and I’ve had some major blow-up holes recently, many coming in today’s round.  My game is going south like the geese.  Hopefully, this is only temporary.
     For this hole, I received a temporary break from my uncharacteristic bad play.  My drive headed for...

Sunday, October 23, 2016

How I Was Hired and Terrible Golf

Finished up on 9-29-16.

     Belinda and I head to Prescott tomorrow to watch Emily play in a soccer match.  They will play Simpson University from California.  I have two meetings in Flagstaff tomorrow afternoon for Time to Teach and then two more in Prescott on Monday.  We will see what happens with those.  I had a meeting with the assistant principal at Ignacio Elementary yesterday, too, and that was an encouraging one.  He seemed impressed, but who knows.  I did not realize Rocky (last name) was still working there for the Ignacio School District; he’s their athletic director.  I did not know Alfonso (last name) was the Dean of Students or Melanie (last name) was the principal of the high school either.  Bayfield was not interested in a training.  I called again when I was in Ignacio to see if I could stop by, but they made it clear I should not waste my time.  They were not interested.

Written on 10-12-16.

     I’m sitting on our longer couch again in our living room, “Refuge.”  This time, though, I’m on the far left side, the side that is near the gas stove fireplace.  B is having dinner tonight at her mom’s, and they are having soup.  B had made some homemade chicken rice soup, and we’ve eaten it multiple times, so I am hoping she doesn't come back with any of it, even though it is delicious.  I made homemade chili for my dinner, and to...

Monday, October 17, 2016

A New Job Opportunity and an Amazing Eagle!

     In news outside of golf, I may be offered a job for either a full-time specialist or a part-time coaching position through C.O.R.E. (Collaboration for Outstanding Readiness in Education) through N.M.S.U.  It’s a grant, and it involves traveling to schools in northern New Mexico to help teachers.  Gee, that’s what I’m all about now.  It’s a perfect fit for me, in my opinion, and the only remaining issues are whether I’ll be offered the job or not and whether or not I’ll take the specialist or the coaching position.  We have discussed it mightily these past couple of days, getting opinions from our parents and others.  
     At this point, I’m leaning towards the full-time position.  Might as well.  What else am I doing right now?  I would have a greater impact, make a better salary, and could include some of my marketing for Time to Teach.  Wow!  Almost sounds too good to be true.  I have sent my resume to the coordinator and am waiting to possibly speak with the hiring committee today or tomorrow.  I will report what happens the next time I write, of course.
     In other golf news, I took some time to catch up some more on my official birdie and eagle count recently, and I am up to 286 birdies and 15 eagles through Golf Diary Part 11.  I am now working on Golf Diary Part 12, which is the year 2014.  I am getting closer and closer, and that is very exciting to me.  I am motivated to know what my current total of birdies and eagles is.  I earned another birdie and another eagle playing with C.J. this Tuesday.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #8-Birdie #42 of 2016

     C.J. and I chose to take on the Bogey Man again.  Hopefully, he wouldn’t be laughing at us by the end of this round.  This birdie helped.  We managed to meet our goal of +4 on the front nine, but in order to beat him on the back, we had to get +3 or better.  +8 on the entire round would result in a tie.
     The drive was pretty, a slight draw that started straight up the right side of the fairway and curved to the left near the end, settling just off of the fairway, a mere pitch from the green.  The flag was on the middle tier and it was close to the edge of the first tier.  C.J. made a comment about how tough this position was.  Many were in difficult positions we noticed.
     C.J. made a fun par here, going driver, then driver again (to go under a tree) to get his ball on the green in regulation.  Then he showed some great putting skills to use up only two putts from the bottom tier despite the hard pin position.
     I wanted to make sure I erred on the side of being long rather than short this time.  So, I added some extra oomph with my pitch/approach.  It worked.  My ball landed on the correct tier, but it was long.  I now had to putt back towards the edge of the ridge, but it wasn’t so bad.  I thought the putt was mostly straight, but C.J. claimed it moved a bit to the right.  Either way, it went in.  It was about a 15 foot putt.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #14-Eagle #3 of 2016!

     We were not doing so well on the back against the Bogey Man.  Right away, we were +2 after the first two holes.  I hit the green on #12, close enough to secure a par, and then C.J. got a bogey on #13 after I earned a double with some weed trouble and a chunked chip.  So, we were already +3, and we had only played four holes.  Then I made this eagle.
     My drive was similar to the one on #8, a beauty that went up the right side, but with less of a draw.  Boy, great drives sure make a difference in my scoring.  I know I gain strokes when I make drives like this one.  I was just past the 150 yard marker.  Earlier in the round, I spied the flagstick, and it was on the top right side.  Since that time, somebody had moved the hole locations, probably preparing for Taco Tuesday later that night.  My approach landed my ball on the green very close to where the pin was earlier that day.  Now, however, the pin was on the opposite side of the green.
     This putt confounded me.  I didn’t know what to do, honestly.  I considered going down into the bowl and back up and out again.  I was also looking at going way high above the bowl, thinking it could break as much as 20 feet to the right.  It looked impossible to even get it on that side and keep it on the green, no less near the hole, but as Luke Skywalker said, “It’s not impossible.  I used to bullseye womprats in my T-16 back home, and they weren’t much bigger than two meters.”
     C.J. was trying to picture it, too.  I think he went and stood at a spot off the green where he thought I should aim, and that’s close to the spot I finally settled on.  Just before pulling the trigger, I picked a spot where some fungus had been dug out, and it was the one closest to the bowl.  I noticed many other similar spots above that one, and then I let it go.
     My ball stayed out of the bowl as it headed towards the left side of the green, and then it turned as it continued along the rim.  I was asking it to stay up as it rolled along, and it was kind enough to listen.  After it turned right, it straightened out and headed for destiny.  C.J. talked about how it looked like it was going to go in, and as it got closer, he sounded more and more confident, “It’s going to go in!”
     When it was four feet away, I was certain, too, and then it rolled directly into the hole.  Wow!  What a putt!  I whooped!  I dropped my putter.  I pulled my hat and sunglasses off of my head and threw them onto the green.  C.J. cheered and headed over to congratulate me.  It was a fun moment!  I was elated.  Some guy up on the teeing ground from #18 hollered down, “I bet you couldn’t make that again!”
     I yelled back, “I know I couldn’t make that again!”
     We went from +3 to +1 after that, just like that.


     I ended up getting a par on #15 (no P.E.F.U.), and I got another par on #16.  C.J. had a miserable time on #17, and I got another double, so were +3 after that, but I ended with another par on #18, so we beat the Bogey Man.  It had been a long time, but this time we got to laugh at him instead of the other way around.  I shot a 45, 39 for a respectable 84.

Wednesday, October 12, 2016

A Grand Day of Golf

Written on 9-29-16.

     I’m sitting on the right side of our larger couch, my huge feet propped up on the foot rest.  The skies are a depressing, miserable gray color today, and I spy a drip, drip, drip, coming off of our roof near our dining room.  The bleak sky helps add to the cozy feeling in here, though.  Belinda is subbing for Valerie (last name) today, but it’s just for a half-day.  I’m catching up on some writing in this wonderfully cozy atmosphere.
     When I won the raffle for the free round for four at Hillcrest, carts included, it was easy for me to pick the other three.  I wanted our Guzman Tournament team back together once more to celebrate our successful, although unrewarded, second place finish. Playing at Hillcrest would be our reward, I figured.  
     It was a grand day!  C.J. and I talked about it again on Tuesday when he and I were walking up the fairway on #9 at Hidden Valley.  He mentioned how Bruce, normally shy and quiet, continued to go on and on and on about how wonderful that round was.  We agreed.  
     What made it so grand?  The reasons were numerous.  Incredible fall weather.  Sunny skies.  Not too hot, but not too chill either.  Gorgeous golf course.  Recently remodeled, Hillcrest is better than it’s ever been.  Perfect playing partners.  All four of us love golf, and we have a healthy respect for the game.  Amazing competition!  Mike and I took on Bruce and C.J. in best ball match play, and it was so fun and so competitive.  I don’t have the scorecard with all the details (Mike kept score), but I do remember some of it.  Mike and I got as far as two up on the front nine, and we maintained that lead throughout the majority of the back nine.  Mike and I both earned pars on hole #16 to match Bruce’s par and keep us one up.  I made an unlikely putt from off the green for mine.  Then I made an even longer putt for par on #17 with a substantial break from left to right that came in on the back side door of the hole.  This did not rattle Bruce, however, who made a pressure-filled putt for birdie to win the hole, extend the match, and get his team back to even for the first time since the first couple of holes on the front.
     I got into some tree trouble on #18, and Bruce secured his par putt, another long one with a ton of pressure.  Mike had a putt for par to halve the hole and even the match, but it broke just below the hole and Bruce and C.J. had won the match right there at the end.  I remember watching them smile and congratulate each other after Mike missed, and my normally competitive side surprisingly could not have cared less.  I was truly happy for them, and I was thrilled for such a great day together with four of my favorite golf buddies.  Despite the loss, it was still a grand day! 

     Mike reported that Bruce had shot a one under on the back when we were done, but Bruce set the record straight with a text later saying that he had gotten a couple of bogeys that Mike must have thought were pars, so he was actually one over, but it was still an amazing performance, and I was impressed that Mike and I were able to lose only one down after such an incredible nine hole performance from Bruce.

Wednesday, September 28, 2016

Golf Epiphanies

     I have a few recordings on my iPhone 5c from my last round of golf, some epiphanies I had.  I need to get those in here, and I also earned one more birdie during that same round.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #1-Birdie #41 of 2016

     I played by myself on Thursday.  I let Bruce and C.J. know I was heading out, but they didn’t reply, so I went on my own anyway.  This birdie started the round with a bang, but as it continued it fizzled.  
     My drive was shorter than usual, but I did it hit the fairway to the right of the tree.  I pulled my 5-iron for the next shot, but only to help keep it low and not for the distance.  I aimed up the right side, but my club dug into the ground before my ball causing it to only skitter forward past the tree another 30 yards, but I was still on the fairway.  The flag was on the right side, and I used my 9-iron next, but I pulled it and I wasn’t even sure if had made the green.  My ball bounced up on top of the hill on the left side and disappeared.  I was pleasantly surprised to find it on the green, but I had a long (forty to fifty feet) and difficult putt that needed to go up the ridge.  The green was still sandy, and I picked a brown spot where a ball mark had once been.  When my ball curved to the left and fell in the hole, I made an expletive.  I said, “Sh*%.”
     It just came out because...

Thursday, September 22, 2016

Our Adventurous Guzman Tournament

     What follows is how the rest of the holes played out for the tournament...

Hole #11-My drive ended up past the bunker and just a pitch away, but it was off the fairway.  Amazingly, I was the only one to get my ball on the green.  After four attempts, we left with another par.  I went last, and my ball tracked toward the hole, but it stopped short.  Still three under.

Hole #12-My 7-iron (not the 6-iron this time because the hole was closer and the tee markers were up) got us on the back left side of the green.  Unfortunately, the hole was on the opposite corner.  It was tricky to get a putt even close, so we were happy to get a par here.  Three under.

Hole #13-Despite a drive to the left side of the green, we were unable to get a birdie.  Each putt from off the green, except Mike’s, just kept rolling past the hole.  Mike’s was short, but it was so short that it ended up farther than the others and left us with a downhill putt.  We felt...

Sunday, September 18, 2016

No More Astrisks, Please

     I went on to win holes #16 and #17, too!  I got the closest to the pin bonus on #16, but we all tied with pars, so the money was pushed to #17 where I got the only par on that hole with a nifty up and down from the left side of the green to a back right pin position.  With the bonus and those two holes, I won another $430,000.00, but would it be enough to win?  
     The next hole would decide it all, but I asked Bruce not to tell me where we stood.  Here’s where we stood, though, now that it’s over.  Bruce had $930,000.00, and I had $940,000.00.  He hit the fairway.  He got a par.  I missed the fairway.  I got stuck under a tree.  Then I knocked my ball farther under the tree.  I ended with a snowman!  Ugh!  If I had gotten a double bogey, I would have shot even par for the back nine, but it wasn’t meant to be.  Instead, I shot a 36, adjusted to an even par 35 for my handicap.  That’s twice I’ve shot even par for nine holes with an asterisk.  For once, I’d like to shoot even par with no asterisks.  
     That’s it for all of the birdies.  It was a birdie bonanza for me, but we had a birdie bonanza ourselves when we played in the tournament on Friday.  It was the Guzman Energy Tournament, and The First Tee was invited to have a team play for free; it even included a free lunch and four free drink tickets for every player.  Very generous.  
     Bruce almost did not play due to Rei having another collapsed lung, but he changed his mind when he heard the surgery went really well and Rei was feeling better than ever.  Bruce is always a first choice, but I was doing my best to get a team that was all First Tee.  When I heard that Pat and Patrick Otero and Tom could not play, I asked Bruce immediately.
It was a dream team, in my opinion.  We had Mike Goen, C.J., Bruce, and me.  Four of the most easygoing, skilled golfers I know.  This is a quick breakdown of how we got our score of twelve under with no mulligans.

Hole #6-Mike’s tee shot was just short of the green, and we got up and in from there with two putts.  Even.

Hole #7-Bruce’s drive was past the tree and on the fairway, and C.J. followed up with a second shot that was on the fairway around 100 yards.  I finished the hole with an approach to three feet directly in front of the hole, and they let me finish the putt.  One under.

Hole #8-Mike’s tee shot put us in the shade and 113 yards away from the hole that was on the middle tier.  Mike, Bruce, and I all got our balls on the green and on the correct tier, but Bruce was closest, and he finished with a breaking downhill putt from left to right.  Two under.


Hole #9-Bruce’s and my drive ended up next to each other on the fairway past the corner despite my ball hitting the trees on the corner.  We chose mine, but only because it was not as blocked by the other trees.  C.J. put us a pitch away from the green, but we almost chose Bruce’s ball that was in the front right bunker.  My pitch got us closest, just to the left of the hole.  I attempted to finish the birdie, but my ball went over the edge on the bottom side.  Thankfully, C.J. stepped up and did it the right way.  Three under.

Saturday, September 10, 2016

AMGC @ HV Closing? & The "Official" Five Birdies

Written on 8-29-16.

     Well, the tournament was a blast!  It was one of the best ever, and it might also be the last ever at Hidden Valley.  I’ve been informed that the golf course is officially closing again, and I am feeling confident (and sad) that it will really shut down for good this time.
     I have my first fall session for The First Tee tomorrow.  Only a handful have signed up, so I am curious to see what the final number will be.  Belinda and I have gone back and forth wondering if I should just can the whole thing this time for a number of reasons, two of those reasons being that the numbers are low and the golf course is likely to close.  I could still choose to cancel once I see how many show up tomorrow.  That way I will feel better knowing I gave it my best shot for any parents who might have waited to sign up on the first day.  It would be weird to have so few participate, so it’s a tough decision for me.

     Let’s get those five birdies in here officially.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #1-Birdie #36 of 2016

     We chose the escalating skins game for this round.  My drive was long enough to be even with the cottonwood, and it was on the right side.  The flagstick was visible on the right side of the green, and I chose my 8-iron to go for it.  I pulled that approach a bit, so my ball ended up rolling and stopping on the right side of the left hill, and the remaining pitch was funky because my ball was so far below my feet.  I bent my knees and took a few practice swishes before I took my shot while C.J. watched and waited.  My ball came out low, bounced on the lower tier, steadied itself and rolled up onto the higher tier where the hole was, and I made the putt from there.  I won that hole and earned the first bonus of the round, the longest drive on the fairway for a total of $20,000.00.

     Before I write about this next birdie, I must record my amazing par on hole #3.  The tees have been way back on this hole for many rounds now, so it’s...

Wednesday, August 31, 2016

Birdie Bonanza!

Written on 8-25-16.

     Today is Danielle’s 21st birthday!  Happy birthday, dear daughter.  We talked about driving down to Las Cruces to be with her for this big occasion, but changed our mind when we heard it would be more of a “party” weekend.  Her friend from the YCC, Devin, is making the trip, and we didn’t want to intrude.  We also got to celebrate her birthday when she was here before heading back just before school started, and we bought her her gift, a new car stereo with bluetooth and some new speakers.  She was thrilled with it, of course, and we were happy knowing she would be safer when talking hands-free on the phone while driving.  Happy birthday, Danielle!  Our baby is 21!  Wow!
     It’s time to get caught up with the birdie count again.  I had only one to catch up on before Bruce, C.J., and I played again on Wednesday, yesterday, and that’s when I earned FIVE more in one round!  

So, here I go…

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #13-Birdie #35 of 2016

     This birdie came in the round where we were playing the points game.  I was in the lead after nine holes with 21 points to Bruce’s 17 and C.J.’s 14.  We all had a pretty lousy front nine, so I was happy to come away with the lead despite our high scores.  
On the back, I managed to...

One Night at the Cabin Home

Written on 8-22-16.

     Belinda and I are up at the cabin home.  She just made a fire, even though we don’t really need one.  It was raining as we drove in, but it isn’t raining here.  Danielle, Belinda, and I took the time to go gather all that wood, though, so we decided to use some tonight, and it’s great for cabin home ambience.  We are here because Belinda has an appointment with her neurologist tomorrow morning.  It will be easy for us to get up and drive less than a half hour to get there.  
     We are going to find out the results of her most recent four MRI’s, and we’ve already heard from the nurse that there were/are four active lesions on her brain (sigh).  We are wondering if her hysterectomy may have caused an episode to occur.  That will be one of many questions we will ask when we go.
     We just returned from Denver last night, and it was a fabulous weekend.  As I mentioned above, we got to see The Fixx live in concert, the major reason for the trip, but we also got some other major bonuses.  On Friday night, Darrell, Angie, Caden, Joe, Tammy, Bev, Curt, Daryl, and Katie all made the effort to come meet us at Dave and Buster’s on Colorado.  After dinner, we did the usual “buy and quickly blow” the cards for gaming.  Caden had a spectacular time; he is such a nice kid.

     On Saturday, we had scheduled a family breakfast with Bev, Mom, and Dad.  Curt had to leave the house around 5:30 AM to go to some officiating thing where he was a mentor.  After breakfast, we did some light chores for Mom and Dad.  We cut down some branches from behind the larger shed, replaced the plastic covers to the window wells on the north side of the house (from damage that resulted because of a recent hailstorm), and weeded and tidied up the garden (B’s part).

Sunday, August 28, 2016

Back From Canada, 8 Days of Consulting (sort of), and My Fixx Fix

Written on 7-31-16.

     Wow!  It’s the last day of July, and that means the end of our vacation, too.  We are on our way back to Durango on a United flight, our second to last leg before we drive home.  Amanda and Eric are seated directly in front of Belinda and me.  We are tuckered out, but happy.  When we ate at the Cantina Restaurant at D.I.A., we each recounted some of our favorite memories from this trip, and we found ourselves quickly naming more than one each.  I can’t say that this vacation was better than our 10th anniversary trip to Glacier National Park, but I can say it equaled it, for sure.
     Now that we are headed home, I can start prepping for the upcoming educational consulting I’ll be doing.  I have two Bisti Writing Project workshops, one for a grammar boot camp and another for…

Continued on 8-19-16.

a third basic skills math Saturday workshop.  I had to stop to get ready for landing there (tray tables up, seats in full forward position, etc.), so that’s why it ended so abruptly.
     Now, I am sitting next to Belinda in our Escape, and we are escaping to Denver for a concert.  We will also get caught up with Mom, Dad, Bev, Curt, Daryl, Katie, Joe, Tammy, Darrell and his family, and Colin and his family, too.  It's going to be a great weekend, and I will be able to cross something off of my bucket list, seeing The Fixx in concert, one of my favorite bands from high school and on.  They are playing with Huey Lewis and the News, The Go-Go’s, and Kool and the Gang.  Wow!  It’s going to be a super 80’s style shindig.
     I haven’t written for so long because...

Thursday, August 25, 2016

Danielle is 21! and Different Golf in Canada

*Happy 21st birthday to our dearest daughter, Danielle, today!

Written on 7-28-16.

     We are having some quiet time after a busy day here, and this is our last night at the VRBO.  Working backwards, I’ll recount what we’ve been up to.  All four of us just came back from playing frisbee golf together at the RV park I mentioned above.  The other three “chose to love” and come play with me (even though Eric was the one who came up with the idea), and I did my best to contain my excitement about having us all do something that I enjoy (golf of any kind) more than anyone else.  Belinda and I took on Amanda and Eric in total stroke play and we got away with the win by one stroke.  Go, Swopes!  
     Although, Eric was definitely the undisputed King of the Billiards Table at the VRBO.  He beat me resoundedly over and over again with some amazing shots, and we played multiple games the last two nights.  I learned that I play worse when I have had three Budweisers, but Eric plays better with more margaritas.  The Democratic National Convention did not upset him too much either, and he certainly was not distracted by any of Hilary’s remarks.  Incredulous, but not distracted.    
     Before that, we drove out to Huson Lake and Caves.  It was incredible!  The scenery here is...

Sunday, July 31, 2016

M&M Peanut Calamity in Canada

Written on 7-26-16.

     I am sitting at the natural wood table in our VRBO. This amazing home is near Port McNeill, British Columbia.  Eric and Amanda are settling down for a short summer’s nap in the living room.  Scratch that.  Now, I have moved into the quiet upstairs bedroom with a stellar view of the Pacific Ocean away from everyone, and Eric has moved downstairs.  Belinda just walked into our bedroom, the master bedroom upstairs, for her shutdown time.  
     We are back from our morning activities on this, our first day of our 25th anniversary vacation together.  We had a “stuff our tummies” breakfast at Tia’s Cafe, did the social media thing by uploading pictures to share, cruised around the docks, found our whale tour guide building for tomorrow, and completed some grocery shopping at a local supermarket.  
     I am drinking an iced coffee and eating washed M&M peanuts as I write.  The M&M’s are washed because they spilled all over the floor at the store.  I got them from...

Saturday, July 23, 2016

Beyond Where I Normally Write

Written on 7-22-16.

     This is new.  Writers write wherever and whenever, right?  I am in the parking lot at the Allen 8 Movie Theaters, waiting to see Star Trek Beyond…alone.  I just donated blood, and I was nearby, so I thought, “Why not?”
     Belinda and I had tentatively planned to go to the Bloomfield Swimming Pool to see the Hatch family between 5:00 and 7:00, almost the entire Hatch family since many of the children are home with their children for a family reunion and they rented the entire pool for themselves.  I figured we could meet up with later at their new restaurant H. Dawgs instead.  Marc and Echo will be performing at that time, too, so that will be a real treat.
     I have two new birdies and an eagle to report, so I want to get those recorded before I go into the theater.  They all came in one round when I played with Bruce.  C.J. has had a surgery, so he will be out of commission for a while.  It’s been a week, but it could be as much as two more.  
     Bruce and I chose to play the escalating skins game with escalating bonuses.  It was a blast!  What a fun match!  I mistakenly thought that the bonuses would not carry over, but Bruce thought they should.  After I hit the fairway on #14, though, he was fine with bonuses not carrying over.  
     I don’t have time to get the details in here, but here’s a quick summary of each one for later.

-Hole #1-Driver from the blues (yes, the blues) to the left side rough, utility club to the right front side of the green, and a putt that rolled above the hole and past it to about a foot.

-Hole #14-Eagle!  Driver up the left side, utility club to just short of the green, and a SW chip that worked out just the way I pictured it to the sweet hole location down in the bowl.

Hole #18-Driver to #18’s fairway, 6-iron over the trees on the right side and onto the green, and a tough downhill putt that went a bit too far, but a confident uphill putt back up to the hole.  


     That’s it for now.  Heading into the theater!

Friday, July 15, 2016

Summer Days

Written on 7-9-16.

     As I typed in the date, I realized that Danielle said she wanted to go back to Cruces on the 10th, but she might stay a bit longer now.  She is out on Jackson Lake kayaking while I sit and write in our cherry red GMC truck, still shiny after its recent waxing.  Does this scenario sound familiar?  Danielle is just like her mother.  We are both happy right now just like the time Belinda and I were happy when she went kayaking and I sat and wrote in the truck just like I am today.  
     Today, though, we are just one outlet away from where Belinda launched last time.  The windows are down and random cool breezes run through the truck’s open windows.  I see other breezes wiggle the leaves on nearby trees and bushes, but the leaves hold still more often than they wiggle.  
     We haven’t heard much from James; we know he’s busy.  He texted us, but it was brief.  It said, “Hey day one was good and so is day two!!  I hope youre having an awesome 4th (smiley face emoji).”
We also got to FaceTime with him, and we got to say hello to Nicola during that call as well.  They both looked so...

Sunday, July 10, 2016

Proud to be an American

Written on 7-4-16.

     Happy 4th of July!  James starts his job today, or rather he started yesterday, with the time difference.  I just texted to ask him how it went, but I’m certain it went really well, and that he had a great time, and that this is exactly where he wants to be and this is exactly what he wants to be doing.  I just want to hear the details.
     It’s been a fantastic Independence Day here already.  I mowed our lawn, and it was just the best.  I’ve always wanted to just take care of/maintain a lawn, not get it set up, and that’s just what I did today.  The mower had been fixed under warranty through the Home Depot, so it started with one pull.  No back wrenching motion over and over again this time.  The grass was forest green and tall after I had fertilized it and we had gotten some generous summer rainstorms, but not tall enough to clog up the mower.  The lines I made were crisp diagonal lines, and it was fun to make the turns at each end, just like I used to when I worked for K.C.’s Lawn Care.  The cut grass smelled sweet and fresh.  Most satisfying!  
     Then, while the girls went to town to do the grocery shopping, I watched...

Monday, June 27, 2016

Five Years and Counting

     Tomorrow is my “5th birthday!”  Five years ago today, Belinda and I were prepping mentally, physically, and spiritually for my brain surgery.  We felt like ants being flushed in a toilet, a truly helpless feeling.  In sharp contrast today, I’m helping Belinda at home after she had a successful hysterectomy last Tuesday.  She came home one day earlier than expected, and she’s well on her way to recovery, too.  We are truly blessed; we both bounce back from major surgeries fairly easily.  
     We also didn’t die from our surgeries.  Others are not as fortunate.  They might have cancer.  Or, they died suddenly from a heart attack.  Or perhaps their spouses have cancer, or someone in their family died from a heart attack.  Belinda and I continue to realize how lucky/blessed we are. Life is great and we know it, and we are not taking any of it for granted.
     Having the brain surgery changed me in many small ways, and in....

Friday, June 24, 2016

The Remainder of the Robbie Ward Tournament

Written on 6-12-16.

     Belinda is out on a kayak on Jackson Lake.  I’m in our GMC truck writing while she motors around out there.  She is happy, so I’m happy.  Dave and Julie chose not to come to the cabin home this weekend, so Belinda and I spontaneously drove up here last night.  I went to the 5:15 mass, and I learned our priest, Father Kingsley, will be moving to Oklahoma City in August.  This was very upsetting news to the congregation; some cried.  I am sad, too.  Father Kingsley has done so much for our church, and he has brought us all closer to God, in my opinion.  Isn’t that what all priests should do?
     This morning, we learned of even more sad, and honestly, tragic, news.  A gay bar in Orlando was attacked, and our country now has its worst mass shooting…ever.  Good grief!  Sigh.  What the heck is the world coming to?  At this point, it has been reported that there are 50 dead and 53 injured.  Speculation is that it was an...

Tuesday, June 21, 2016

Robbie Ward Memorial Tournament-Part 1

Written on 6-11-16.

     Well, my back survived it.  It’s a bit sore, but I can tell I am on my way to recovery.  Hopefully, I can start working out again vigorously this week.  
     Today is Bev and Curt’s 28th wedding anniversary.  Congrats to them.  I just texted her to congratulate them and confirm that it’s been 28 years, and she literally just texted me back saying it is.  Wow!  I’m so happy and relieved that the Verizon strike is over now, too, and that Bev can be back at her home and working at her “regular” job again.
     Our team took 8th place out of 19 teams in the Robbie Ward Memorial Tournament, and we were able to get it to 7 under with a score of 65.  The winning team got it to 15 under, and that score tied another team’s score, so they held a playoff.  
     Usually, in order to save time, a scorecard playoff is used, but a playoff playoff took place to determine the winners.  It was a father vs. son playoff, and the father was victorious.  After the playoff, raffle prizes were given out and this year I won a big one!  I won a...

Wednesday, June 15, 2016

Pulled on Pressure Washer = Pulled Out Back

Written on 6-9-16.

     I’m out on our back deck, Sanctuary, on a Thursday evening.  The breezes are beginning to cool a bit, although it’s just 8:04.  I have just finished the first week of The First Tee in Aztec.  So far, it’s been fine, just fine.  It's a ton of work, but once everything is set up, it really is great fun.  This is my first year teaching Birdie level lessons, and I am thankful to have a group of four for that group this summer, especially considering I only had two who had certified at that level last summer.  A family with three siblings (who had worked with Tom before he left) came back to join in again with The First Tee again, so it’s those three and one of my own from last summer.
     Anyway, I have no reason to dread The First Tee.  I’m glad I’m doing it; I think it was a bit tougher this time because I feared the unknown.  I wasn’t sure how I would do the schedule.  I didn’t know how many would sign up.  I even put more work on myself by digitally redoing my diagrams for the warm-ups and the activities.  Now, I have a better grasp of my schedule for June and July.  I have 20 who have signed up, and once I...

Monday, May 30, 2016

Happy Memorial Day!

Happy Memorial Day!

These birdie accounts have me all caught up for the month of May.  C.J., Bruce, and I played yesterday, but I played so terribly that all birdies eluded me.  

Written on 5-22-16.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #6-Birdie #22 of 2016

     This is Eric’s sponsorship hole for Big-O, so this is a fun hole to get a birdie.  The flag was on the right side on the upper tier, a very tough location because it’s difficult to get a ball to stop on that thin strip up there.  The wind was blowing in our faces, so I clubbed up to my 8-iron.  If there wasn’t any wind, I would have chosen my 9-iron.  I haven’t birdied this hole in a while, just like the previous two, and these were all par threes, too, which makes these three birdies even more special.  
     My ball landed just short of the hole and stopped around six feet away.  This putt surprised me because I thought I was going to miss it on the left side, but for the last five inches it suddenly turned right and dropped in.  C.J. had given me a read with his putt for bogey just moments before, but I thought I was going to miss on that left side.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #14-Birdie #23 of 2016

     C.J. and I were playing the G.I.R. Game, one of our recent favorites.  This hole helped me take a bigger lead.  When we were done on the front nine, I was only up by...

Friday, May 27, 2016

Mancos Musings

Written on 5-22-16.

     I’m sitting on the couch up at the cabin home in Mancos.  Belinda, Danielle, and I came up for one night on a Sunday.  The fire is going (thanks to B), CBS is broadcasting golf, and we are settling in.  This week is busy with Danielle and I going back to Las Cruces and Belinda gearing up for the end of her one school year at Florida Mesa Elementary as the computer lab/research teacher; they are getting rid of her position after this school year ends.  I have my second ever training at Loma Heights this Thursday and Friday.  I’ve been spending hours getting my presentation just the way I want it.  
     My settling in involves writing, of course.  I have five new birdies to write about.  I got another one when playing with C.J. and Tom, his buddy, one day, and then yesterday I earned three more.  Let the birdie count continue…

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #12-Birdie #20 of 2016

     Yep, that’s right.  I earned a birdie on hole #12, a rare thing indeed.  C.J. and I were playing together.  I used my utility club because the tees were back.  It was not pretty, but it was functional.  My ball shot out medium low.  I wish I could have seen it bouncing; I would want to know how many times it bounced before it jumped or rolled and ended up just four feet left of the hole that was near the middle of the green.  I saw the putt in my mind instantly.  It would move to the right slightly at the very end, so I aimed just to the left of the hole.  My ball caught the left edge and fell in!  C.J. was impressed; he knows how rare birdies are on this hole, slightly rarer than getting a green in regulations there.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #10-Birdie #21 of 2016


    Before we teed off, I discovered that C.J.’s buddy, Tom, and I had northeastern Colorado in common.  He lived and worked in Wray for years as an attorney.  I told him that my Uncle Ray, who died recently (sniff, sniff), was born there.  After our initial small talk, I chose my 9-iron and made an effortless swing to put my ball just past the hole and only five feet away.  The putt was mostly straight with only a tad of left to right in it.  Sadly, this birdie did not help me enough in my match against my two competitors.  C.J. wanted Tom as his partner to take me on in match play.  I held my own until holes #15, #16, and #17.  I didn’t do too badly on that three-hole stretch, going bogey, par, bogey.  Unfortunately for me, they went par, birdie, par with Tom chipping in for his only birdie of the round on #16.  I went from even to three down in a snap!  I did my best to come back, but the match ended on hole #2 after we had decided to hole #4 would be our closing hole.  Age and treachery beat my youth and beauty for this round (wink, wink).

Tuesday, May 24, 2016

Birdies Officially Entered Now

Let’s get these birdies in here officially.

Aztec Municipal Golf Course-Hole #18-Birdie #17 of 2016

     I had to get an eagle to tie Rob (still not his real name) for our G.I.R. game.  We have been perfecting this game as we’ve gone along, making slight but necessary changes.  C.J. and I had a misunderstanding about what happens when one of us hits a green in regulation.  I thought that if we triple-putted (or worse), we would subtract a point from out total score.  That would really punish us for not using up one or two points.  He thought that hitting a green should guarantee a point, and that the only point that would be “lost” would be for not finishing up with one or two putts.  We are now on the same page, and I agree with C.J.  
     My eagle attempt came really close to...

Wednesday, May 18, 2016

Remembering Ray

Ray With My Best Friend Joe at James's HS Graduation 2012
Written on 4-29-16.

    I’m devastated.  My Uncle Ray died last weekend.  He was doing something he loved, dancing, so that’s a good thing, but…oh, what a loss for his family, for our family, for the world.  
     Ray was a ray of red-headed sunshine.  Ray was kindhearted, giving, funny, and hardworking.  He was close enough in age to be considered more like a cousin, just nine years older than me.  Instead, because of this closeness in age, he was this really cool uncle that I always looked forward to seeing and visiting.  I always felt right at home in Ray’s presence; I could be me.
     I remember Ray playing the organ at the old schoolhouse that was converted into their home in Eckley.  I can see him showing us what all the dials do, and I remember “air playing” a pretend keyboard to imitate (poorly) what he did so effortlessly.
     I remember how he designed and redesigned his bedroom, giving it a uniqueness none of the other bedrooms had.  When we would stay at Grandma’s for a week in the summer, and it was nap/quiet time, randomly getting Ray’s room was only second best to getting the big family room where the organ was.  He stretched out his living space to a large wooden spool thing that was a makeshift deck just outside his window.  
     I remember his patience and his love for...

Friday, April 29, 2016

Quick Summary of Three Recent Birdies

     I have one more birdie to report on hole #18 when Rob (not his real name) and C.J. and I played together as a group for the first time recently.

Quick summary of my recent three birdies…

#18-Driver to #3, 8-iron to left side.  Eagle attempt to tie Rick with the G.I.R. game, but after putting from off the green, it stopped just to the right and below the hole, less than a foot away.

#9-Caught Rob with this birdie for the same game.  Driver over to a spot behind #12.  Would not have been O.B.  6-iron beauty that landed on the green and rolled past the hole (according to C.J).  My eagle attempt went short and to the right of the hole, leaving me 2.5 to 3 feet left for my birdie.  Mostly a straight putt.


#1-Driver to just to the right and short of the cottonwood.  5-iron low shot that ended up on the green.  Hole on top tier, but close to the ridge again.  Putt went to the right about 4 feet away.  Earned all the money on this hole for the beginning of the Escalating Skins Game.

Tuesday, April 26, 2016

Teacher Reunion and Avoiding a Skunk With C.J.

Written on 4-16-16.

     I’m sitting on our couch near the stove, but the stove is off.  It’s a breezy, gloomy day outside, but it’s comfortable and warm in here, so I see no need to turn it on.  I’m watching the RBC Heritage with my Chromecast.  I had a Bisti Writing Project Reunion and Rally earlier this morning.  We have many exciting projects going on/coming up, including some Basic Skills workshops, and I’ve been asked to head those up as our project leader.    
     When it was over, I met with some McCoy teachers, some who have retired/rewired like Belinda and me and some who are still teaching, although maybe not at McCoy anymore.  It’s an ongoing thing where they meet every few months or so, but it varies.  This was the first one I was able to attend.  It was a small group of just five, and they were kind enough to sit and wait for me while I ate since I was an hour late after attending my Bisti meeting.  When I arrived, leftovers were boxed in styrofoam containers and empty plates and glasses littered the table along with some tips.  I gave them a reason to stick around and visit more, though.  We reminisced about some of the funny stories from years ago, and we laughed until our faces hurt.  
     We also talked about how we had so much more freedom when we...