Wednesday, December 31, 2014

One Last Outing at Hidden Valley? and Happy New Year!

12-31-14

    With less than two hours left in this year, I am writing this last bit in this 12th golf diary.  What a year it’s been.  So many changes.  Today, I had my golf clubs re-gripped, my big Christmas gift of the season.  Don let me swing some in his workshop when I came to pick them up, and I still had some shanks sneak in there, but my best swings came when he put a 2x4 next to my ball.  He and I believe I am coming so far inside sometimes that my club is screaming to get to the outside, and because of that I’m getting some lousy contacts.  Thank you, Don.  He said, very generously, that I could go in there
and swing away for free anytime because I am his friend.  I’ll take him up on that in 2015.
    After picking up my clubs, I tried to call C.J. again.  Today was the last possible day to go play at Hidden Valley before it’s officially closed.  We had talked about playing 18 holes one last time, but we’ve had snow.  We’ve had freezing weather and wind chills.  We’ve been busy, too.
    He didn’t answer, but I saw that he called me back.  I tried again, but he still didn’t answer.  So, I drove right to his house.  I convinced him (it wasn’t hard) to come with me to go to the course one final time this year, and possibly one final time…forever.  It’s still unknown what will happen with the golf course.
    We decided to play #10 out and #11 back in.  C.J. won the first hole with one less stroke than me.  We teed off on #11 from the red tees.  I brought three clubs, but C.J. chose only one.  Never take on C.J. when he has just one club.  The golf was not great, but the companionship was, of course. 
    I realized as we walked along that golf is not the important part.  Maybe it was the bad golf I was playing or maybe it was because I wasn’t taking the golf too seriously either.  We’ve spent thousands of hours just hanging out when we’ve played all these years at Hidden Valley.  C.J. and I did things that we’ve done every round we've ever played there.  We both wished Bruce was there, but he was playing a game and hanging out with Reilly.  We took our swings and made comments about each one.  We looked for golf balls together, the gentlemanly thing to do.  We complimented our good shots.  We had small talk.  We talked about the golf course, but the conversation about the golf course was much different this time.
    He said there were three owners, but they owned different shares.  It was nine shares, so one owned six, one owned two, and the last one only one.  One owner, last name Barker (not his real last name), was a local who also played at the course.  He confirmed that one of them was tired of investing in the course without the other two helping to pick up the slack.  Not sure which one, though.  He also said the water was not the issue.  The biggest issue was the loss of memberships, most likely due to the poor playing conditions.  What a bummer.  He also mentioned that the entire course might be turned into a housing development.  It’s speculation, so it will be interesting to see what truly happens. 
    When we were done, we shook hands.  We said goodbye and thank you.  It was fun!  But, it was different, too.  We had taken pictures before, but this time we both took pictures thinking these might be the last.  This time when we played, we were both thinking this really could be the last time, and we might be the last two to ever play there.  And as much as we have played there, that’s very fitting. 

Until next time…

Happy New Year!

Sunday, December 28, 2014

Change is Good, Though

    Bruce, C.J., and I did play nine holes earlier this month.  Bruce’s strong play helped us to a score of +2, a much better score than we all expected.  My game was rough.  I had five out of six excellent drives, but my iron shots included some of those dreaded shanks again, and my chipping and putting were not where I expect them to be.  I do hope that I play better when we play our final 18 holes.
    These past five to six months have been crazy with big changes similar to the closing of the golf course.  Let’s see.  Oh, Belinda and I both told our principals before the break that we were going to retire from public school education at the end of this year.  I’ve worked very hard to get trainings as a Time to Teach consultant.  The children have left home.  That change alone was one of the biggest, and we all felt it the weekend we took the children to school.  James cried in his bedroom, his way of saying goodbye to his childhood.  His room was devoid of furniture because he was taking it to his house in college.  The finality of their childhood years was felt by all of us that weekend.  Ouch!  My heart hurts again just writing about it here.  Change is good, though.  We grow from change, and it’s almost always in a positive way.

Friday, December 26, 2014

Say It Ain't So!

Written on 12-24-14.   

    So, our Hidden Vally Golf Course is closing.  It’s just not working out.  They probably lost a ton of money this past season (remember the bumpy, putt and pray greens?), and they may have been steadily losing money for years.  Who knows?  Someone knows.  I heard the water is the most expensive part, and that’s what did them in.  I am betting that Tom knew it was going to close, and that’s why he found work in Florida.  I also heard (from an unnamed source) that one of the owners was fed up with putting money into it and not getting any help from the other owners.  C.J. is working hard to get the city to take over.  We’ll see what happens with that.  I am willing to help with that in any way possible.  I know the city manager likes to take his family to play golf there, so that might help. 
    The pro shop looks barren.  Pictures are taken down.  The kitchen is empty.  It’s surreal.  It’s been thirteen years.  Bruce, C.J., Eric, and I plan on playing 18 holes one last time before the doors are closed for good on December 31st.  I know they are playing today, despite the high temp of just 38 degrees.  Eric is unable to swing a club since he recently had shoulder surgery, but he still wants to go what might be the last time.  He’ll chip and putt and just hang out with us.

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

It's a Different Kind of Christmas Eve

12-24-14

    Merry Christmas Eve.  I never know when the next time to write will come, but I do know I didn’t expect it to take this long.  I haven’t posted to my blog yet this month, but it’s been crazy busy at school.  We are heading home after a wonderful, but busy trip to Littleton, Lakewood, Colorado Springs, and back to Lakewood again.
    Once again, a road trip ends up being one of the better times to write, so here I go.  James is driving.  B is seated behind me.  Danielle is behind James, and I am in the passenger seat.  We are all in our new, loaded, slate gray Ford Escape.  Life is great! 
    It’s atypical to go to Mom and Dad’s before Christmas, but it’s all Mom and Dad’s fault.  Sort of.  Dad’s breathing attacks prevented them from traveling to Virginia to visit the VA Swopes in October, an annual trip.  Guy did his best to get a flight out in November to visit them instead, but it didn’t work out, so he ended up getting a flight with his family in December.  I guess I can blame Guy then for this trip, too.  Thanks, Mom, Dad, and Guy; it’s all your fault. 
    We drove straight to Joe’s new condo in Littleton on Saturday.  He treated us (and his latest girl Tammy) to a spectacular dinner at Ja Ja’s, a fancy French restaurant just down the street.  After dinner, we walked on an illuminated, cheerful downtown Littleton Main Street before getting some ice cream and hot chocolate on the way back to his place.  Yummy!  Joe’s new condo is…well, new.  It’s only four years old, and it’s gorgeous.  Our family instantly loved the place.  It’s a spacious two-bedroom, two and a half bath with luxurious dark wood floors throughout.  The guest room was a cluttered mess, but he promised to have that all cleaned up before our next visit.  We topped off the night with another “Generous Joe” Christmas. 
    We had our bigger family Christmas at Bev and Curt’s on Sunday.  Then we came back to Mom and Dad’s on Monday for the birthday celebration, a different celebration without my Aunt Theresa being there; it was just too much to have her come this time.  That night, Daryl, his now fiancĂ© Katie, Erica, Erica’s friend Tiffany, Emily, James, Danielle and I saw the latest and final Hobbit movie on the Imax in 3-D.  Wow, what an expensive, yet immersive and fantastic movie experience that was.  The technology has reached a point that I didn’t forget about the 3-D this time, and everything looks and sounds incredible.  It didn’t hurt that the movie was very well done, and I felt it was a return to the better quality of the original three Lord of the Rings movies.  Bravo!
    James convinced me to go see Interstellar after that at the Bel Mar with Guy at 10:20.  Good grief, two lengthy movies in one evening.  Guy, Annmarie, and ShyShay had just returned from a dinner with their friends.  We made it minutes after it had begun.  This movie, although quite different from the Hobbit movie, was just as excellent.  James had given it a glowing review, so I had to check it out for myself, and it wasn’t hard to convince me to stay up later to see another movie with my only brother and only son.
    Last night, it was a mellow night with just Mom and Dad and the four of us.  Danielle wanted to go to downtown Denver first, so we did.  She was giddy as we drove and walked around.  She just loves the downtown experience.  It was enjoyable for the rest of us to just watch and listen to her react to everything we saw down there.  We got some coffee and checked out a few shops before heading home for pizza and one game of James’s Settlers of Catan, Belinda’s and Dad’s first time.

Sunday, November 30, 2014

30th Excerpt From My Original Golf Diary on the 30th of November

    In this excerpt, I am about to go back to school after Christmas break, but here in the present I go back to school tomorrow after Thanksgiving break.  After this Thanksgiving, I recognize that I have much to be thankful for.  I am healthy after surviving strep as an adult again.  I also hurt my heel by jumping out of a tree over at the Edgerton's after the BIG dinner.  I thought I was a kid, so I was playing "tree tag" with the other "kids."  All is well now, though.  I am thankful for the time we got spend with our children, and we had the bonus surprise of having Emily stop by going both directions, the first time with a friend and the second time with Bev and Curt.  So, it reminded me of all the Thanksgivings we had celebrated in the past with the Lamberts.  Here's another look back in the past...    

Written on 12-25-01.
 

    This Christmas, I got...

Saturday, November 29, 2014

29th Excerpt From My Original Golf Diary

Written on 12-14-01.

    I was able to play in Phoenix after our interview with the DOD.  I had another first, a rather incredible first at that!  I scored three birdies in one round.  In all my rounds, I have only been able to get one birdie per round, and sometimes none at all.  I was thrilled to get two, but three?!  I was ecstatic!  I am up to eight birdies this year now.  Let me see if I can remember and type them all here quickly.  I know I got one at the long par five #5 at Hidden Valley.  That was one of the first.  I also got one at the very next hole, but on a different date.  I made a long putt playing with Eric.  Then two holes after that one but on a different day, I made a beautiful pitch after a bad drive on that short hole #8 and made that downhill putt.  That’s three.  I also got one at Civitan on hole #3.  I knocked a pitching wedge into a strong wind from about 100 yards out and landed it three feet or less from the hole.  That’s four for sure.  I also count making the birdie putt on hole #18 during the Aztec Football Fundraiser Scramble as one of my birdies, even though I just made the last shot on that one.  It was a long putt from off the fringe with some tournament pressure weighing in on me.  That makes five, and now I just got three more in one round!  I will type in the details later, but they were all on par threes as this was an executive nine that I was playing on.  The only bummer is that there were no witnesses but me, but I know they were all legitimate.  Hey, I am really up to nine this year!  I was just reading some previous entries and I forgot the one when I was playing with Guy, Daryl, and AM up in Lakewood at the Foothills course!  One more and I will have matched last year’s total number.  And it’s only December!  Can’t wait to go out and play some more and hopefully get another one, or two… or three more.

Monday, November 24, 2014

Happy Anniversary, Belinda! Life is Great!

Written on 11-23-14.

    I look back at my written reflection on the Club Championship, and I think…I’m such a whiner.  As I sit here, though, downstairs up at the cabin home on the first weekend of Thanksgiving break, I have nothing but positive things to think and write about.
    B is taking a nap on one couch, and I am sitting on the medium red futon/couch.  She and I are the only ones down here.  The only other couch down here, the only empty one, is our old dirty white one with the tan stripes.  It has a pullout mattress and a decent chocolaty colored cover on it that we bought years ago from Target for around $200.00 (to cover the dirty white and tan stripes) to keep it from completely embarrassing us before we bought our new living room furniture.  That old thing reminds me once again of...

Thursday, November 13, 2014

28th Excerpt From My Original Golf Diary

10-15-01

     I am talking with Guy on the phone right now.  We regularly talk about golf.  I was telling him about how Eric and I played golf this past weekend, two days in a row actually!  That is rare considering our wives don’t normally allow it, but Friday we had Parent/Teacher conferences, so we got to leave school a couple of hours earlier than usual.  We got to play at Civitan.  I hadn’t played there for a long time.  Like I had said, we played on Friday after conferences.  Then we played again on Saturday, eighteen holes both times.  Highlights were five pars in a row and another birdie!  I also tied my best score there, a 32!  Or did I score a 31 once? I will check my scorecards to see if I did. No, I haven’t.  I also scored six pars in another set of nine holes.  I played very well, very consistently.  I also got a par on the very difficult ninth hole, which is 173 yards or so.  I beat Eric on all nine holes, except the last nine, where we tied with a 36.  On that nine, I scored a six; however, on hole number two, all because of four putts!  YUCK!

11-17-01


    Hello again.  I just finished playing today, and wanted to tell about another birdie I got.

Hidden Valley-Hole 8


    This is the same short par four where I made the long downhill putt I wrote about just a little bit ago.  I pulled my drive pretty badly, bouncing it off the cart path and landing it near the green of hole #12, the raised par three.  From there I hit one of my best pitches with my pitching wedge.  It landed on the green about eight feet above the hole.  I rolled it right in from there for a three.  I had a witness, some guy waiting to tee off on #13, but he didn’t know it was a birdie putt and I have no idea who he was.  Some very steady playing today preceded that birdie.  I ended up with one birdie, five pars, and five bogeys.  I scored a 45 on both the front nine and the back nine.  They let me play the back nine first.  I played alone.  Danielle chose to go to the Fall Festival at McCoy instead of playing with me.  I guess games and prizes are more exciting than golf to her, and I guess I can’t blame her considering she is six years old.  Ha 
    I played at Curt’s golf course with Guy, Curt, Daryl, and James last weekend.  That was great fun, too!  Curt could only play the front nine because he had to go to announce a high school football game.  Guy, the two boys, and I continued on to the back nine.  I shot a 91, which I was very happy with.  My goal was to shoot in the low nineties, or get my handicap in the high teens by the end of last summer.  That is about where I am at right now. 
    I won another prize!  Sort of.  Dad challenged Guy, Curt, and I to see who would score the lowest.  The winner would receive one of Dad’s lottery tickets worth one dollar.  If it would have been a winner, it was worth about four million.  I...

Friday, October 31, 2014

Goodbye, Dear Tom

    Wow!  What a busy month.  I had the Club Championship (fail), and I had the training in Sedona (success).  I was also able to successfully move all of my parent-teacher conferences to this final week of October, the week of our Halloween party and our one community service field trip for this month to the Good Samaritan Center.  I have survived and thrived through most of it. 
    After playing so poorly (the bum knee did not help) in our championship, though, I wanted to get away from golf for a while, and so I did.  Now, I would love to get back out there again.  
     I have heard some sad news from my little golf world recently, however.  Our head pro at Hidden Valley has decided to take a new job in Florida.  I am happy for him, though.  He has more friends and family out there.  I am bummed for Hidden Valley.  Through his leadership and expertise, our little course has flourished and improved.  I know he had some input for the hiring of our new superintendent who has turned the greens from bumpy and unpredictable to smooth and readable.  I have been especially impressed with how well the girls on our golf team did with his coaching, and he was the major impetus for bringing the First Tee to Hidden Valley.  That culminated with the successful invitation of our very own Ray Torres to attend the First Tee Tournament at Pebble Beach recently.  Wow! 
     So, goodbye dear Tom.  I wish you well when you get to Florida, but I know they will appreciate you there as much as we have appreciated you here. 

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

New Title

Dear Golf,

I miss you.  Know that I will never forget you and that I will come back to you.

Sincerely,

Pat

P.S. (I have a new title that can be added to my long list of monikers, and that is a BIG reason why I have not been playing or writing about you lately.  After returning from a training in Sedona, Arizona, I can now say I am an official, certified, national Time to Teach Trainer.)

P.P.S. (For the record, I did give you an outside chance during my trip.  I brought my wedge and my putter and some golf balls along in our new Ford Escape.  I never had a chance to use them, but at least I got to see them every time I got something out of the back.)

More about this later...

Monday, October 13, 2014

The Round I Am Already Forgetting

    So, how bad can it get?  If I were to paint the worst scenario for how the Club Championship would pan out for me, what would that look like?  Before I write this, I would like to say that it’s not as bad as I thought it would be now that I am on the other side of it.  Writing about it helps.  Oh, it’s bad, but it’s not a tragedy.  Also, I know my tweaked knee played a part in this.
    It would include a great start, a drive right up the left side of the fairway on #1, a drive that went much farther than all of the competitors’ drives, a drive that used a bunch of adrenaline.  I know that each shot is separate from all of the others, but this drive would inspire hope and create an optimistic attitude that would later, of course, get dashed. 
    It would include some shanks and some high scores.  In all, I think it should have about nine shanks, six that come on two holes back to back (three each to be fair).  For the high scores, I would expect to see around six doubles, a few triples, and to round things out, a couple of quads.
    To be fair, it should include at least one topped shot, and it should also have a few shots that take out too much ground before the ball, the ones where the weight is not shifted properly and the contact is weak and “thuddy.”  When this happens, the ball should fly about halfway to the target.  
    How about a few out of bounds shots?  Sure.  The first will come on hole #5 right off the tee.  It will fly towards the cottonwoods near the fence, giving some hope that it might stay in, but it will never be found.  The second will come on hole #7, also directly off the tee, but this one will be in clear view.  There will be no doubt about it going over the fence, because everyone will watch it go over.  Nothing starts a hole off better than knowing that a double bogey or higher is the most likely outcome.  As is expected, the shots right after the out of bounds shots will be beautiful, or at least stay in play. 
    The third O.B. will rear its ugly head on an approach on hole #8 from the thick grass.  This third one will fly directly over some of the players getting ready to tee off on hole #13, of course, and it will hit the fence (but still go over it) to make that unmistakable “somebody just made a terrible swing” sound.  Thankfully, nobody will get hurt, though.
    Finally, the score should break 100, but not in the “good way.”  It will be over 100 by five strokes.  All of the previous rounds of the season will be below 100.  Most will be below 90, of course.  So, on the day when it counts the most, that will be the day to shoot the score higher than 100, a score that is rarely seen, if ever, anymore.

Thursday, October 9, 2014

Who's the New Club Champion?

Written on 10-6-14

    I have about 20 minutes to write before “family chat night” begins.  It’s Sunday night, the Sunday of our Hidden Valley’s Club Championship.  I do not know who the club champ is, but I do know who it is not, and sadly, that is me.
    I didn’t even finish the thing, withdrawing from the tournament this morning with a quick phone call to Tom.  I have tweaked my right knee somehow, so playing another 18 holes could have wrecked it even more.  I have some theories about how it ended up this way, so I will defer to making a list.

Playing volleyball last weekend-I chased down errant passes as the setter, and sometimes I had to get really low to get under the ball.  I also did some jumping and blocking, so that put some strain down there.


Our new car-The new Escape has my knee in a different position for driving than the old Sienna did.  The angle is funny, so my knee feels bunchy when I have to switch from the gas to the brake.  I am sure I can adjust that, though.


My newer swing style-Dana taught me to point my toes out more than I ever have before in order to make a wider turn.  When I load my right leg now, my knee is in a different position, and that is also a strain. 


TRX workouts-With my feet suspended in straps, while lying on my back, with my bottom up in the air, my knees have some pressure on them, especially when I have to bend my knees to move my legs back and forth repeatedly. 

    All of these things contributed, in my opinion.  I hope it heals up as quickly as it came on.  It’s time for chat now.  I will pick this up where I left off after the chat is over.

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

NMSU Trip and Two New Birdies

Written on 9-28-14.

    Well, what a wonderful visit.  It was fantastic to see all of our children, all four of them. We hung out, we ate together, we played a large amount of volleyball together, and we took in a volleyball match, too, NMSU vs. Bakersfield from California.  The Lady Aggies squeaked one out, barely winning the fourth set to force the fifth where they then won handily 15-8.
    Now, it’s back to the two of us again, driving back home alone.  Sigh.  I am happy, of course, to be with Belinda only again, but I miss our children, too.  I pause as I write to look up through our new moon roof.  Clouds are drifting by and blocking out the sun, so it looks more like a bright yellow circle cut out of the sky.  We’re getting closer.  It’s that part of the road trip where...

Sunday, September 28, 2014

Ray Torres Fundraiser-The Conclusion

Written on 9-24-14.

I stopped last time at hole #14, so what follows are the final holes.

#15-We had two drives that ended up on the higher and farther tier of this fairway.  One of them was mine, but that was not my intended target.  I was going for the green, but my tee shot curved from left to right instead, a monster of a slice.  From the fairway, Damon and I had decent shots.  They both ended up on the green, but Damon’s approach left us with the best chance for a birdie.  I am uncertain as to who made the putt.  I think it was me.  It doesn’t matter.  We got another one.  Eight under.

#16-Nothing exciting here.  We were on the green, but nobody made the putt for birdie.  Still eight under.

#17-I was telling everyone how Bruce plays this hole every time.  I was certain Dan could get a tee shot up there, but I wasn’t so sure Ron or Damon could.  Anyway, after telling them about how Bruce gets a par or a birdie consistently on this hole by driving it between the first set of trees and then over the second set, I...

Tuesday, September 23, 2014

Ray Torres Fundraiser Tournament-Part 2

Written on 9-18-14.

    It’s commercial time for The Biggest Loser, one of my favorite shows.  The farewell season of our family’s favorite show, Parenthood, begins next Thursday.  Speaking of family, we are going to visit our children for the first time this school year next Friday.  We are all so excited to be reunited.  I am betting that next week will crawl along like the caterpillar that was found on one of the coat hooks in my classroom this afternoon.  So excited to see them.  Can’t wait.
    

Back to the golf…

#8-I had the longest drive, a gutsy one considering everyone else had fared poorly.  It was long and up the left side, and it ended up just past the ditch where it curves away towards the pro shop.  Damon had the better pitch onto the green, but mine was a close second choice.  Ron backed up his previous birdie putt with a downhill putt that leveled out at the hole.  Three under.

#9-My drive was fine, but Dan hit a low shot that bore over the teeing area on #12.  I felt certain it wouldn’t make it past the o.b., but it did without a problem.  Ron called the pro shop for a proper ruling on whether we could take it out of that rough area and drop farther back.  He said we...

Thursday, September 18, 2014

Ray Torres Fundraiser Tournament-Part 1

Written last night.

    It’s harder to find time to write during the school year.  I do everything I can to be the best and most professional teacher I can be, so that takes time away from my personal writing.  Because of that, I’m going to get “write” to the golf this time.
    When I earned that birdie on hole #6 and went on that birdie, par, par, par run that ended up being the difference in the match with C.J. and I against Bruce and Reilly, it was mostly with thanks to Bruce, although he didn’t know it. 
    He had graciously kept one of my inappropriately titled golf balls in his bag after finding it on the course weeks earlier.  I believe it was that ball that...

Sunday, August 31, 2014

In the Aftermath of the Soaked Laptop

8-30-14

    Belinda and I are at the cabin again.  It’s just the two of us now, but Dale and Anna are on their way here and will arrive any minute.  We did get it all to ourselves last night and for most of today, though, and we are thrilled that they are coming.  It’s Labor Day weekend, so we have a small respite from the stress of school, and what a hectic beginning it has been for what will likely be our last year teaching since we will probably retire after 25 years of service each.
    My Golf Diaries are...

Monday, August 25, 2014

Happy 19th Birthday, My Dear Daughter Danielle

    I have not posted in a while, and this will be brief.  First, though, happy birthday to our daughter Danielle who is away from us for the first time on her birthday.  We did not even have a voice conversation today.  How sad!  I know she is happy, though, and doing well.  She had a celebration with her cousins and her new friends down at NMSU.  That is just one of many insane changes that are taking place in our life right now.  Since it's 9:56 on a school night and this new laptop has only 10% power, I will defer to making a list, one of my great friend Vicki Holmsten's best tips when the writing is not flowing.

1. As I had posted previously, our old laptop got soaked in a rainstorm.  I left it out on the porch after eating breakfast outside.  The diagnosis is "catastrophic failure" for our hard drive.  We are shipping it out to DriveSavers to get a free estimate on a possible rescue.

2. All four children are in college now.  Last weekend when we all drove down to move them in, Danielle topped off losing her luggage with her outfit and other essentials for "moving in" day with losing her wallet on the day we were heading home.  All is well now, but what a start!

3.  I have lost 116 brief descriptions/summaries of birdies and two eagles on my official birdie and eagle count.  I have three birdies to catch up on to keep it all going.  One that did not get written about was an 8-iron on #16 when I played with C.J.  Another happened out in Virginia with Guy on a par five at Reston National.  The last one happened yesterday at Hidden Valley on #6, another 8-iron to five feet.

    What a change from the post two back.  I have gone from only playing golf and writing about it to not playing golf as often and barely having the time to write about it.  Ah, school. 

Until next time...

Thursday, August 21, 2014

When It Rains, It Pours and Pours...and Pours

     Tragedy has struck, but it's not a major tragedy.  I left my laptop out on the back deck one morning after having breakfast out there.  It was the day we teachers all meet at the Aztec High School Multipurpose room for the beginning of the year "pep rally." It was also the one day that it really rained, and rained, and rained.
     The evening before, James and his friends had played a strategy game that took up our entire dining room table, and that was the reason I ate outside.  On any other day in Aztec, it would not have been an issue.  We have so many days of sunshine here that the likelihood of rain, especially so much rain, was minute.  It was my own fault, though.  I was the one who left it out there, and to make matters worse, I have not done a back-up in a while, a long while.  This begs the question: If someone doesn't really know what they are missing, will they miss it?  As the days go by, we will see if I/we can remember what was on there.  Hopefully, it can all be recovered.  Not a great way to start this school year.  
     

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Plan the Work; Work the Plan

Written on 7-21-14.
   
    I am in a tough holding pattern right now.  Play golf.  Write about it.  Play again.  Write about it again.  Bummer.  Ha.  Just kiddin’.  This is great!  Summer is so fun. 
    Belinda just finished cutting my hair.  I bought a haircut kit instead of a haircut when my hair was getting long a couple of weeks ago.  I have to give credit to Bruce for this fantastic idea.  For about the same price as one haircut, I can now have B cut my hair every month, or every once in a while when it gets shaggy. 
    My haircut style is not complicated.  She followed the directions and did an amazing job for her first time.  She used the trimmer and trimmed everything up about a week ago, but she barely took anything off the top, afraid that she might overdo it with the scissors.  Tonight, I forced her to take more off the top, and using those same scissors from the kit, she did just that.  Then she cut the part across the front, the part that sticks up to make it look straight and even.  Voila!  I now have a completed haircut, and it looks sharp.  Way to go, Belinda!
    On to golf...
    I have three more birdies to write about, and I had a...

Sunday, July 27, 2014

The Birdie Count Continues and I Get an "Ace"

Written on 7-20-14.

    My family is on its way back from a trip to Las Cruces.  I just spent the past weekend “bach”ing it.  I cleaned the house, bought the groceries, did the laundry, mowed and trimmed the lawn, and watered all of B’s plants.  Oh, and I played an insane amount of golf, but I am taking a break today.  I was working very hard to improve my scores from the blue tees.  I could manage a 45 on the front nine, just eight over and a 43 on the back nine, also just eight over, but I was unable to beat either of those two scores these past couple of days.  I won’t give up, though.  I can try again tomorrow.  Ah, summer.
    During all of those rounds, I managed to...

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

More With Dana and Two New Birdies

Written on 7-13-14.

    It’s a lazy Sunday at the Swope house.  Belinda just left to complete our weekly grocery shopping.  James and Amanda are hanging out in his bedroom.  Danielle left to go for a short hike and be alone with her thoughts.  I am watching the U.S. Senior Open.  Pika has joined me here on the bed.  She’s curled herself into the letter “C,” and her right front paw is also curled, covering her face.  Lazy and adorable.
    Back to my latest lesson, Dana also showed me a different type of chip, an unorthodox style that was more upright.  He showed me that heels dig in, but toes don’t.  It’s a Tom Kite chipping style.  I put the chipping club’s grip in the lifeline of my left hand, similar to putting, stand closer to the ball, and make a putting stroke. 
    As I mentioned before, we didn’t get much time for...

Friday, July 18, 2014

"Third" Instructor is a Charm

Also written on 7-11-14.

    I had my first lesson with my newest golf instructor, Dana, this past week.  I first met Dana when he came to McCoy with Tom (last name) for the First Tee Program.  He is my third golf teacher.  Or the fourth if I count Tom (other last name) at Golf U.S.A.  Golf U.S.A. has closed, by the way.  They had a big “going out of business” sale, and now it’s gone.  The store I bought my first set of clubs and other various golf “stuff” is no longer in business.  Sniff. 
    Tom shut the place down due to a lack of business, among other reasons.  He stated that many golfers would buy their golf items online at lower prices, so he could not compete or keep up, although I saw that his prices were very competitive.  He also had great service, in my opinion.  I enjoyed his honesty, his help, and our conversations every time I went in there.  I will miss it.  My most recent purchases there were my push cart and my R2-D2 putter headcover.  My push cart is getting used as much as my headcover is not.  Thanks, Golf U.S.A. Tom, for helping me get my start in golf.
    So, Dana’s lesson was...

Monday, July 14, 2014

I Play With My Neice ShyShay and Guy Scams Me

Written on 7-11-14.

    Yikes!  We are a month away from reporting back to school.  Lots to share, so here I go.
    Playing at Grand Lake was fabulous, but different this year.  We played Pole Creek for our second time ever, but it wasn’t Guy, Dad, and me this time.  For the front nine, it was Guy, Annmarie, ShyShay, and me.  This was the first time the two ladies could join us because A.) Shy was old enough to play and wanted to go and B.) Shy was old enough and wanted to go, and that meant Annmarie could go, too.
    Let me tell you about my niece ShyShay and how well she did on this official/“real” golf course.  She is...

Saturday, July 12, 2014

Back to Normal; Golf is Hard

Written on 7-2-14.

    I’m sitting at Webb Toyota.  Our van has a recall, so I am here to get it taken care of, something to do with it possibly slipping out of gear without depressing the brake.
    We are back from our fabulous vacation at Grand Lake, and things are back to “normal.”  James and Danielle are back to work and Belinda and I are back to work on our Summer To Do List. 
    C.J. is interested in playing at Pinon Hills again, and so am I, but after playing golf at Grand Lake...

Saturday, June 28, 2014

I'm Three Years Old!

Annmarie, ShyShay, Guy and I on Pole Creek's #9 on the Ranch Course
    Today is my third birthday.  I’m three years old now (sort of).  It’s been three years to the day that I had my meningioma brain surgery and was granted a tumorless brain, a new start, and the ability to have another page turned to the next chapter of my life here on earth.  Happy birthday to me!  To celebrate, I was given a fabulous gift that has no price, a precious gift many people wish for and many other people take for granted: time with my family.
    We are at Grand Lake again, our sixth adventure here at a place that has grown on us all as a special Swope family reunion spot.  We are staying at the most extravagant cabin home yet, a monster of a mansion (well, not really a mansion, but it’s spacious) with superb amenities and excellent cleanliness.  It’s a bit much for this humble servant/teacher, but I’m managing just fine, as is the rest of the family.
    Guy, Annmarie, ShyShay, Bev, Curt, Erica and Emily are taking...

Monday, June 23, 2014

"Terrifying" Best Round So Far This Summer

    I had one of my better rounds ever this past week.  On Wednesday, C.J. and I took on Bruce in a best ball/score match.  I figured C.J. and I had a fair chance to beat Bruce if we worked together. 
    As it turned out, Bruce struggled (for Bruce) and C.J. and I worked really well together.  We went one up right away because Bruce struggled his way to an eight.  Then we went two up with our two pars to his bogey on #2.  We stayed at two up on #3 when Bruce and I matched each other with pars, and then we all got bogeys on #4.  We went three up on #5 with our two pars to his bogey again.  On #7, he got it back to just two down with a birdie (more like the Bruce we know).  It was on this hole I figured out that...

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Two Lousy Shots With Surprising Results and an Early Summer Scramble

Also written on 6-10-14.

    In golf, I have a story I’ve been meaning to get in here.  It took place before school got out, but I know I told Bruce that it would be one for the journal, so here I go.
    While playing #15, Bruce had a rare miscue on his approach where he caught it a little fat, causing his ball to head on an arch towards the ditch, but it miraculously missed the ditch (falling short of it) and hit the cart path instead.  From there, it caromed up into the air once more where it landed...on the green.  From there, he made his par after two putts. 
    On the very next hole, I played a similar shot, a shot that looked doomed after leaving the clubface, but somehow ended up just fine.  I caught mine thin.  My ball headed straight for the tree that grows between the teeing ground and the green.  It rattled around in the branches near the top, and it sounded awful, as if it had no chance to continue on its journey after all that ruckus.  Somehow, miraculously, it continued on, though, and like Bruce’s ball ended up on the green.  Thankfully, I was able to finish up in two putts for my par, too.

    On the final day in May, a Saturday, Bruce, C.J., Reilly and I played in a fundraiser for Aztec’s basketball team.  It was a scramble, and we played...

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Mountain Fresh Family Update

Written on 6-10-14.

    I take a deep breath in, and I let it out.  Once more.  Breathe in.  Breathe out.  Fresh mountain air fills my lungs.  With each breath, peace flows in and stress flows out.  If the stress were visible, it would be a ghastly green, a hideous green and not a mountain pine tree green like the trees I see with my natural widescreen view here.  Yes, we are up at the cabin home.  Belinda and I have escaped.  Let it out, Pat.  Let it all flow out.  This so necessary, so right.  Thank you, Edgertons, for this opportunity.  I will be forever grateful that we can come here. 
    It’s not just that we can come here and afford it; it’s also that my wife sheds the overbearing “skin” of stress that comes from being at home.  Not that our home is a stressful place.  We do have “haven” and “sanctuary” and now “refuge,” but it’s more about...

Friday, May 30, 2014

Three Birdies on Memorial Day

    I’m sitting on the new furniture in the living room.  Ah, it’s summer again.  James’s girlfriend Amanda is here along with their friend Justin.  B is off to Farmington to take Jess on an errand.  Jess fell and hurt her elbow, so B is helping her out.  Jess is okay.  She mostly just hurt her right elbow and hip.  Danielle is at work; she is doing C.P.R. training today for her new Y.C.C. job.  I find myself with another opportunity to write in the month of May, so I’m taking it. 
    As I stated in my previous post, I helped out our newly assembled team on Memorial Day with three new birdies.  Not a shabby way to start the summer.  Here they are...

Hidden Valley Golf Course-Hole #14-Birdie #13 of 2014


    My drive went well to the left, a straight line drive pull to the #7 fairway.  My ball could be heard whapping a few leaves on its way over.  From there, I chose the 7-iron, but I was a bit afraid that...

Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Here I Am

    Hello, my name is Pat Swope, and I am the blogger of this blog.  Or rather "blah-g."  I have been rather preoccupied with some other things lately, namely the end of this school year, my 24th/25th.  I am now in the middle of my 25th year and could retire in October if I so choose, but I would never do that; that's how I came into teaching, so I would not do that to a class...or a new teacher.  Our daughter, Danielle, also had her high school graduation, so we have had family and friends here for that, and we participated in this year's Project Graduation for her just like we did for James two years ago.  I've been busy, but it feels wonderful to create and write and type again.

On to golf...   

    I played in the Memorial Day Marathon tournament two days ago.  I was going to play with Cameron, but he got an offer to have his entry fee taken care of, so he chose to play with someone else.  He asked if I wanted to play with another guy he knows, so I agreed.  His name is Chris (not his real name), and he’s a younger player with a high handicap. 
    We did not play well enough to place, but I had a fine time, and we had said from the very beginning that we were going in with low and/or no expectations. 
    I earned three birdies on my own during the tournament, so I will relay those here.  Briefly, though, here they are.  I had a birdie on #14 (of course), another on #18, and the third one came amazingly on the oddly substituted green on #11.  #11’s original green is in the process of being redone, but they all should be redone in my opinion. 
    They look diseased with tiny oddly shaped patches of green surrounded by shallow valleys of brown.  Golf balls would bump along, change directions, and do the most unpredictable things.  One of my putts did what I called “the fake arrow through the head” move.  It was heading towards the hole when it curved around it and then straightened out again on the other side.  Sigh.


Until next time...

Saturday, May 24, 2014

27th Excerpt From My Original Golf Diary

In this excerpt, I write about how I won my first prize ever by playing golf.

Written on 7-17-01.

    I have so much to write and so little time.  I will hit the highlights now and fill in details later.  I made three pars in a row at holes 7, 8, and 9 with Troy at his new golf course, South Suburban.  Guy was playing with us also.  I also got two more birdies bringing this year’s total to four so far!  I might possibly have five birdies actually.  I need to check with Hidden Valley about the fifth one. (I am sure it really wasn’t a birdie.  I hit into the big pond that really isn’t a pond yet, and then got up and down from 100 yards out, so I am not counting that one as a birdie.  6-5-02)  Beating Eric two out of three 18 hole rounds in Montana was fun.  Not that it is good to beat Eric, but it helps measure my improvement.  I scored two of my lowest scores ever for nine holes, 41, once in Montana and once again here at Hidden Valley.  I will fill in details later, but I am doing very well and I am very happy.  My handicap is starting to go down, down, down.  I might be under twenty by the end of this summer.  I am working very hard to be able to do that.  More details later.

Written on 9-12-01.


    I have even more good news.  I won my...

Monday, May 12, 2014

26th Excerpt From My Original Golf Diary

     In this excerpt, I start with a birdie I had earned way back in June approximately 13 years ago with Guy, Annmarie, and Daryl.  I also take Danielle (and her special guest) and James to the "new" 18 hole Hidden Valley Golf Course where I played steadily, yet poorly, with James and hot and cold with Danielle.  A week from today, Danielle will be graduating from high school.  James returns home tomorrow night after his second year in college.  Sigh.  

Written on 6-13-01.

Foothills Golf Course-Executive Nine, Hole #2
 
 

    Guy and I had just made par on the very first hole.  That was...

Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Easter Weekend and a "Merciful" Birdie

Written on 4-20-14.

    We are just outside of Saguache, about 14 miles now, and we are headed home on this Easter Sunday.  B, Danielle, and I went to Lakewood/Denver for multiple reasons.  We got to see my niece Emily play in a soccer match on Friday afternoon at Garry Berry Stadium in Colorado Springs against, of all places, Durango High School.  She did really well as their goalie, giving up only one score in the first half, but that was enough to give their opponents the win.  I saw a former volleyball player/competitor/friend while there; his sophomore daughter is playing for Durango. 
    A big deciding factor for the trip was...

Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Quick Post About the New Cabin Firsts

Written on 4-13-14.

    Well, we are back at the “cabin home” again.  This time we had some friends come up for lunch yesterday.  I just wrote in the new cabin journal for the first time.  I’ve been writing about our trips up here in this journal, so I didn’t see a need to write in there, but this morning I was inspired, and I didn’t want to be left out either.
    It was a weekend of firsts.  That was my theme.  Eric put everything together (pump, pressure tank, lots of PVC pipe, etc.), so we have running water and hot water to boot.  Eric got the deserved privilege of the first shower last night. 
    It was the first time we had small children up here, too.  One of my former third graders came up with two beautiful girls and their mother.  The 5-year old is his, and the 3-year old is not (although you couldn't tell from her perspective), but they were both adorable, well-mannered, and lively.  He and their mother worked well together, and I was impressed with their patience, preparedness, and parenting.
    Eric beat me in Sequence, and I lied in the new cabin journal that it was the first time he had ever beaten me.  Thus, the competition continues.  I look forward to taking him on again.
    Danielle took the ACT for the last time yesterday.  It didn’t take long before she fell asleep on the couch for a brain-recovering nap.

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

When It Comes Down to the Last Hole...

Written on 4-5-14.

    The last time I wrote, I was telling the story of how Bruce blew me away in match play.  He won seven holes when we agreed to switch to a different game.  I had only managed to win two holes on the front nine. 
    We switched to the Reverse Handicap game with a twist.  The twist this time was the winner of the previous hole gave a pop to the loser for the next hole.  He was ahead by three points after winning hole #13, the hole we had started this new game.  We tied on #14 even though I had earned a bogey to his par, but that was because of the twist and the pop.  One big point was pushed to hole #15. 
    He won hole #15 with a double to my blow-up score.  I got a...

Sunday, April 6, 2014

250th Post-Our Royal Family (wink, wink)

Proud Father and Young Queen
Royal "Sisters"/Cousins
4-6-14

    Well, I’m a bit tired and wired as I write this.  We had a late night last night, staying up well past the time we’re usually asleep to drive to Farmington and see the crowning of Aztec High School’s Homecoming royalty.  The wired part is coming from the coffee I just bought from Durango Joe’s here in Aztec.  The only reason I bought the coffee was because I inadvertently left my phone at my school after just working there for a couple of hours.  I left my phone there because I was tired, so I chose its retrieval as an excuse to go get some coffee, too.
    Well, it’s official.  We are a royal family.  I’ll do my best to stay humble (not that it’s really a big deal, but it is kind of a big deal, and I am being a bit facetious here, too), but we have a son who was Prom king two years ago, and after last night’s announcement, we have a daughter who is now the Prom queen.  Her ”sister”/cousin Becca was also part of the royal crowd last night. 
    They looked gorgeous, and I am biased.  They are also hardworking, involved, and generous and selfless with their time, since they are both working for the after-school program at my school, McCoy.  They are also both headed to college in the fall. 
    Belinda and I were talking about it all, of course, on the way home.  I told her that I thought it was a tad creepy for us to be there at a high school dance, but Belinda insisted that it was not.  She missed out on one crowning with her boy, so she would not miss out on a possible crowning for one of her girls (Becca is like our daughter).  When she said that, I had an epiphany/thought.  I realized that I had survived my brain surgery to be able to be there and witness it.  Okay, not so creepy after all.

Sunday, March 30, 2014

Spring Break Musings at a "Cabin Home"

Written on 3-27-14.

    Happy spring break to us!  Belinda and I drove up to the newer cabin for our second trip up here alone.  I’m sitting on a fawn-colored and weathered, leather couch that the Edgertons recently bought from two teacher friends of ours.  They were hired just a month or so ago to work overseas at an American school in Egypt, so they were/are liquidating all of their stuff.  They will start their new adventure this fall.   
    Previously, they had worked for five years at an American school in the U.A.E.  The timing of this purchase was serendipitous as the Edgertons were in need of some new furniture for the cabin.  Not sure why I am still calling it just a cabin, though.  It’s a home, a two-story home with a two-car garage.  They also purchased their patio furniture and a king-sized bed set that they are using at their original cabin home back in Aztec rather than up here, but that’s because they had already bought three new beds at Sears.  Now, they’ve placed their old king-sized bed in what I am calling the babies‘ room downstairs.  Amazing how this has all worked out, really.
    And, it’s all...

Saturday, March 22, 2014

Which Is Better? A Birdie on #12 or an Eagle on #14?

    Bruce and I chose to keep going.  The weather was swell, despite all the warnings of afternoon thunderstorms and gusty winds.  He and C.J. were signed up to play the next day in the Irish Open, but Bruce wanted to get in as many holes as he could, and I was happy to oblige.

Hidden Valley Golf Course-Hole #12-Birdie #10 of 2014

   
    We headed over to #12, he in his cart because he had just been playing with Reilly, and I walked/jogged over with my push cart. 
    I had honors because C.J. and I had won on #10, so I teed off with my utility club and made the best swing I can ever remember making on this hole.  It was high, mostly straight, and it landed, get this, on the green.  Yes, on the green.  Don’t remember ever doing that before either, although I might have done it once or twice.  I’ll have to check the journal on that one.  My ball was... hole high and on the green.  It was probably 20 feet or so away. 
    I took some pictures of my ball with the flag off to the right (gorgeous full moon in the background included) with my new iPhone 5c.  Then I took a couple more (had to record it; it’s such a rare thing) of the ball with the flag in the distance.  Bruce was kind enough to oblige me this time.  I read the putt as left edge, but I think I pulled it a little, causing it to go outside the line I had pictured.  Either way, it worked.  We’ve always said that making a par on that hole feels like a birdie, so making a birdie on this hole felt like an eagle.  Sticking around and playing more had paid off instantly.  All of my bad swings were forgotten immediately after just two strokes.

    And, it got even better, including some incredible play from Bruce.  He birdied #13 with a drive that just made it over the wash.  From there, he made a great follow-up pitch and putt.  Then he eagled #14, ending the bet for who would get the first eagle of the season.  During that same hole, I earned another birdie.

Hidden Valley Golf Course-Hole #14-Birdie #11 of 2014-Bruce’s Eagle

    We had our own little shot group with our drives.  His went straight up the fairway and kicked to the right to end up just in the fringe.  Mine faded from the left side of the fairway all the way over to the right side, stopping about two or three feet ahead of Bruce’s. 
    His approach to the flag that was up on the top of the green on the front left side, came out high and left.  I thought he was off the green on the left.  My 8-iron put my ball just off the green on the right side.  His ball was below the hole and six feet away.  Before I finished, he wasted no time, lined it up and rolled it in.  I owe him $5.00. 
    We high-fived, and he said that the high-five counted for my birdie back on #12, too.  We pondered which was better, a birdie on #12 or an eagle on #14.  We agreed that both were awesome and rare.
    To finish my birdie, I rolled my putt from off the green way over to the left, where it arched five or six feet before it settled just outside of a foot behind the hole.  After Bruce got his eagle, I putted my ball in for my birdie. 
    What fun!  Bruce had just gone birdie, eagle, and I had just gotten my second birdie.  I was so happy we had stuck around, but the sun was headed down, and we weren’t sure if we would be able to finish.    We debated going straight to #18.  Then Bruce decided we should give it a go, so we continued on to #15.  I called Belinda and got the green light (it was a mellow Friday), so off we went.
    We both earned pars on #15 the proper way: fairway, green in regulation, two putts.
    Then I had a short game miscue on #16, leaving my first putt from off the green short enough to just miss my par on the follow-up putt.  Bruce got a par by hitting the green and two-putting again.
    We both attempted to drive the green on #17.  His was better.  Mine was a big slice that curved as much as the left side of the full moon we were playing under.  It managed to fly over the water and through the branches of the cottonwood, where it actually settled on the fairway.  He managed another par despite a pitch that rolled back off the green.  My chip stopped just off the green, so I got a second bogey in a row.  I did make a clutch putt for that bogey, though, with a tough, slightly downhill left-to-right putt on a crusty brown green that was as slick as a tile floor.
    I know I am not supposed to pay attention to the score, but I knew exactly where I was.  I knew I needed a birdie to get my first ever even nine hole score.  I almost did it, anyway.  My drive sliced again, so it was a good thing I was aiming for #3’s fairway.  Bruce and I were right next to each other on the fairway again, my ball just a foot ahead of his this time.  My 6-iron put me on the green in two; the problem was I was on the wrong side.  I did my best to read the putt with the darker conditions, and I did a decent job.  After that though, my 8-footer for birdie stopped short and right.  I had just shot one over.  Bruce finished with a 34, one under.
    That’s it for now.  I did want to add another birdie Bruce earned on #14.  C.J. left after making 68 strokes on his 68th birthday, when we played on March 9th.  A guy with a St. Louis shirt named Charles (not his real name), joined us on the very next hole, hole #14.  When we got to the green, Bruce had a slightly uphill putt of about ten feet to a hole that was cut down in the bowl.  This was a bizarre putt that I doubt will be repeated.  His ball hit a small ridge just in front of the hole that moved his ball over to the right side, where it stopped.  Or, so we thought.  With bummer voices, we all said, “Ohhhh.”
    Then his ball fell in backwards on the right side.  I say “fell in backwards” because that’s what it looked like to me. If his ball would have had little arms, those little arms would have been swinging large, rapid circles to keep it from losing its balance.  We laughed and congratulated Bruce on his miracle putt.

Monday, March 17, 2014

The "New" Cabin and Five Lousy Swings

Written on 3-15-14.

    Well, this is cozy.  Belinda and I are up at the “new” cabin together.  The electricity is out, so we are sitting in the living room in about 80% darkness.  The  light percentage is coming from a small, handheld, solar flashlight clasped in Belinda’s right hand while she reads a library book she checked out today from the Aztec Library, and this laptop’s light, which is dimmed to the max to reserve battery power.
    We have moved in.  We made up A and E’s bed with their new skirt, mattress pad, and comforter, moved two large jugs of water downstairs for the plumbing (specifically toilet flushing), and checked out what is “our” bedroom downstairs and discussed what colors we might use to paint and when.  Life is good.

On to golf...

    I had a strange golf experience yesterday.  I joined...

Friday, March 7, 2014

One Lambert In, One Lambert Out?

Written on 3-6-14.

    I am home alone.  I was just checking on my blog, and I chose to check out other blogs with the handy-dandy “Next Blog” link up at the top.  A similar theme showed up immediately.  Every blog, and I can say every one, was not up to date.  Their most recent posts were between 2009 and 2012, but I couldn’t find one that was for this year, or even close.  Sad.  Didn’t see anything worth reading either, and not just because they had nothing recent.  Wow, that’s a mean thing I just said.  I said a mean thing.
    B and Danielle are home now.  We are watching The Talented Mr. Ripley after having had dinner.  I can feel my pain medication wearing off.  My farthest back tooth on my lower left side was extracted yesterday.  It went...

Friday, February 28, 2014

Bev's Surprise Weekend-Part 2 or A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to...

    On Saturday morning, some of us played golf.  It would not have worked out had I not pushed for it, like I am known to do.  Dad wanted us to ride together in his van, but I wasn’t sure if I could bring my clubs along.  Would there be enough room with all of our suitcases?  I forced the issue, though, bringing not only my clubs but my push cart as well.  I got some looks from my mother and father on that one, but they allowed it.
    Guy, B, Danielle, Mom, Dad, and I crammed all of our stuff (and my golf equipment) in the back, and we were on our way.  We had a few humorous moments on the way out of town.  Dad forgot his cane.  He and Mom had made a bet about when we would arrive in the Springs.  She thought he was hedging the bet in his favor with a delay tactic.  Some of us said we would just buy him a new cane; let’s keep moving.  Some said we should let him go back and get it (we were less than two minutes from home).  He pulled over into a left turn lane to take a moment and decide.  He was persuaded to keep going, so he pulled out again. 
    I was on the fence.  At first I agreed that buying a new cane would be an ideal solution.  Then I reconsidered and thought what’s the harm in turning around; we weren’t on a tight schedule.  I told Dad what I was thinking, so he pulled into a left turn lane again farther down the road.  We debated and deliberated again, but Dad chose once more to keep going, yanking the van back out into traffic.  We all laughed.  I think the final deciding factor was Mom offering him her walking cane.  Was she hedging the bet in her favor this time?  Either way, it was quite entertaining and a super funny family bonding moment for all of us.

Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Bev's Surprise Weekend-Part 1

Written on 2-21-14.

    We now have three places in our home that we’ve given different and unique names, all related to peace, tranquility, and serenity.  After the brain surgery, we named our front porch “Haven.”  Our deck has been known as “Sanctuary” for a long time, longer than any of our other favorite places in our home.  Now, we have our “new” living room with all of its supple and newfangled leather furniture, “Refuge.”  Belinda and I are sitting in our living room right now, our refuge, on a Friday night and we feel safe and secure from the outside pressures and dangers of our world.  It’s a most appropriate name.
    She’s reading a book on the spot closest to our gas fireplace.  The stove is off now, but the fan continues to hum, and the metal clicks intermittently as it cools.  I’m to her right, and the heel of my right foot is resting on the inside of her right calf; our legs are entwined, sharing the space on the popped-up leg rest. 
    I have a heating pad on my neck.  My neck’s been hurting off and on since a bad night’s sleep at Mom and Dad’s when we visited there last weekend for Bev’s 50th birthday surprise.  And, I even brought my own pillow.  I’m doing my best to relax and let the heat melt the pain away while I recline and tap away lightly on my keyboard.  Music from my iTunes library is playing on our new Samsung bluetooth speaker bar which is below yet another recent purchase, our Samsung flatscreen TV.  Ahhh, refuge.  Great name.
    Guy came up with the idea of surprising our sister Bev on Presidents‘ Day weekend.  He thought that it would be the perfect weekend because A. She would not suspect it at all since it was two weeks before her birthday on March 4th, and B. It was a 3-day weekend which made it easier for traveling.  He was right, but hey, Guy’s a smart guy.
    We surprised her at Kohl’s.  She was shopping there with Curt and Emily before a meeting about foster parenting.  We sent in the family members one at a time.  The idea was to make it an incredibly random and “out of context” experience, and also to make it get better and better with each person she would see.  It worked...mostly.  Danielle went first.  Bev looked up and said, “No way!  What are you doing here?”
    Danielle said, “We don’t have a Kohl’s in Aztec.” 
    I surprised her next.  It was supposed to be Mom, but she got lost.  Then she was found.  Dad came after Mom.  Seeing Guy got the best reaction that I witnessed.  I don’t think she expected him to make a trip of that distance just for her, but of course he did.  Belinda was the last one to come over inside the Kohl’s.  Laura completed the surprise when she walked over to Bev from the parking lot outside of Kohl’s.
    After the big reveal, we had lunch over at their house.  That night, we enjoyed dinner out at Jose Muldoon’s.  Joe couldn’t make it; he got an unexpected and unwanted head cold.  I think Danielle got a similar one after we came home again.


More next time...   

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

On This Given Sunday, Who Won?

Hidden Valley Golf Course-Hole #14-Birdie #8 of 2014

    We all aimed for the fairway on #7 because the snow was abundant on #14’s fairway.  My ball headed towards the “alley,” though, so I knew it would end up in the snow.  Bruce’s was in the snow, too.  After taking my free drop, I had my best swing of the round with my 7-iron.  My ball ended up in the snow again, but this time it was stuck in the snow on the green on the north-facing side of the bowl.  When I picked it up, my ball looked like it had a small white tire wrapped around it after rolling around in the snow again.  I took another drop and used up two putts from a position I had never been in before due to the snow stopping the ball higher up on the slope.  Bruce got a birdie, too, so neither one of us earned the three points for winning the “birdie hole” outright, and the points for winning the hole pushed again.

    I tied Bruce again on #15 with a par.  C.J. and Bruce both should have earned pars on #16, but Bruce rolled his first putt a bit too far and missed the comebacker.  C.J. had a short uphill putt for par, but he missed that one right, so we all got bogeys and the points pushed again.
    It wasn’t until hole #17 that the dam broke.  I was out of it after my approach.  I was fortunate it even made it over the ditch.  My thinned 9-iron caused my ball to come out low and short, but it smacked on the cart path and limped over the ditch.  I missed my par putt after another pitch that made it onto the green, but in the snow again. 
    Bruce and C.J., however, had birdie putts forthcoming from the right side of the hole that was on the front and near the middle.  Bruce went first.  Short.  C.J. rolled his, and I was hoping he would miss so I could win it all on the next hole.  Nope.  That wasn't meant to be.  He rolled it right in, leaving no doubt who had won this match. 
    He made some comments heading over to the #9 teeing ground about not letting an opportunity get away and making sure that any of his competitors didn’t hang around.  Well, he did not let that opportunity get away, and he demolished his competitors with that one stroke.  I don’t know which one was better, C.J.’s chip-in for the win when we played Skins or this putt.  Both were fantastic!  Way to go, C.J. 

Until next time...

Thursday, February 13, 2014

The Short Game and We "Own" HIdden Valley

Written last night.

    I am home alone.  B has gone to her sister Char’s place with Amanda and Danielle has gone...well, where she usually goes: to see Robbie.  I am watching the Netflix Original Movie called The Short Game.  I have watched it before.  It fascinates me.  I feel equally thrilled and disgusted when I’m watching it. 
    I am thrilled because these little athlete golfers have such a naivete, such motivation, such enthusiasm.  It’s encouraging and fun to watch. 
    I am disgusted because it’s a bit much.  It’s over the top.  I worry that these children are missing out on their childhood.  I am also disgusted by a few of the overly competitive parents.  I’m thankful that it all takes place in a “gentleman’s” game, though, where honesty, integrity, and sportsmanship are expected.
    Our wi-fi just went out.  No more movie.  That’s okay.  I can focus more on my writing this way.
    I earned...

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

What a Difference Some Water Can Make

Now, for my three most recent birdies...

Hidden Valley Golf Course-Hole #15-Birdie #4 of 2014

    On Martin Luther King Jr. Saturday, C.J., Bruce and I played escalating skins again at my suggestion.  After the beating I took playing C.J. last time with his chip-in on #10, I was hoping to make some money back.  C.J. And I both got embarrassed by Bruce, though, who took home enough money to pay for a new, small company.  Bruce shot a 78 after being one under on the back.  That back nine score included three birdies for him on #13, #17 and #18.  Geesh!  Nice shootin', Tex.
    My one birdie in this round was pretty straightforward, and it helped me take...

Monday, January 27, 2014

A Miraculous Recovery After a Discovery

Written on 1-25-14.

    One of the best and most wonderful things in my life happened today.  I was at Eric’s Big-O Tire, hanging out in the waiting room while our GMC truck was getting lubed across the street at the new Big-O Quick Lube, working on the official birdie and eagle count when I hit a huge roadblock, coming to a dead end at the close of Golf Diary-Part 3 and the beginning of Golf Diary-Part 4. 
    Part 3 ended in May of 2004, and Part 4 started at the end of 2005.  I was missing over a year and a half somewhere, everything from May of 2004 and the entire year of 2005!  It made no sense to me; I was certain I had continued one right after the other, but somehow a huge chunk was missing. 
    I went home, scrambling to find it.  I turned on the Mac Mini and hooked up the external hard drive.  I opened them up from there and got the same result.  Then I remembered...

Wednesday, January 22, 2014

A Great, Fun Match With C.J. This Time

Written on 1-21-14.

    Ten days ago, C.J. and I had a great, fun match of our own.  We did the escalating skins game, a favorite of mine.  It came down to the last hole, and then it went one more.  Here’s what happened.
    On hole #1, C.J. won with a par.  Then he won on the next hole with another par.  I was struggling. 
    Truthfully, we were both struggling to play...

Sunday, January 19, 2014

Starting the Year Right With Three Birdies in Nine Holes

Written on 1-13-14    

    I shot an 80 on this round, a 41 on the front and a 39 on the back.  I  thought it was interesting that the first three birdies I earned this year were on a par 3, a par 4, and a par 5, just not in that order. 

Hidden Valley Golf Course-Hole #11-Birdie #1 of 2014

    As I stated earlier, I played on alone after Bruce and C.J. went home after nine.  I started with a bogey on #10, but I got it right back on this hole.  I aimed my tee shot over one of the cottonwoods on the right side past the ditch, but my golf ball flew low, left, and long instead.  With the harder, drier ground it ran right through the fairway, past the cart path for #9 and ended up in the harsher ground off #9’s fairway.  I chose my A-wedge for the approach.  The pin was on the back, so my goal was to have my ball hit the top of the green and roll down to the back.  It did!  I had only four feet left, and it was slightly downhill, and it broke a wee bit to the right.

Hidden Valley Golf Course-Hole #14-Birdie #2 of 2014


    I did not do so well after that first birdie of 2014.  I followed it up with two double bogeys, so it was great to get another birdie and get back on track.  The drive was an “alley” drive.  Once again, with the harder ground my ball actually ended up on the right side of the fairway.  It was far, too.  It was 150 yards out.  I chose the 9-iron, but it was a bad choice.  I put a smooth swing on it, and I had pure contact, but it ended up short and right.  Of course, I wanted my ball to land up on the top and farther left, so it would roll down into the toilet bowl and go in the hole for my first ever double eagle.  Nope, didn’t happen. 
    I did my new open stance chip shot, and this was the best shot.  The ball popped up nicely, landed just off the green, and rolled slowly into the bowl.  It turned right like it’s supposed to, but it stopped short of where I wanted.  I had a putt of about ten feet this time.  It trickled in for another birdie on the hole I birdie the most. 


Hidden Valley Golf Course-Hole #16-Birdie #3 of 2014

    This round was getting better.  I had two birdies in my pocket.  I had just gotten a par.  Things were looking up.  Then it improved.  I expect to get a birdie on #18, not this one.  Here’s how it happened.  The pitching wedge got the call even with the flag on the back (another reason why this birdie was so special).  It headed left of the green, so I hoped it would kick right, and then it did.  I saw it roll towards the back of the green, but I did not know it had ended up off the back until I walked over there.
    I brought my wedge and my putter, not sure which one I would use.  The grass was so crusty, so I chose the putter.  Great choice.  My ball rolled onto the green, turned right and quietly fell into the hole.  It shocked me.  I whooped.  A birdie on this hole, with the hole cut in the back?  Awesome!

Friday, January 10, 2014

Happy 2014!

Written on 1-9-14.

    Well, hello 2014. Happy to be here after all that brain surgery stuff that took place a while back.  It will be three years this June.  I checked the Caring Bridge web site recently.  It’s up to almost 10,000 views now, so somebody’s reading it.  Don’t know who, though.  That was some of my best writing, in my opinion, but the material was excellent fodder.  Not like this diary/journal, although it does have a drama all its own. 
    I’m still writing in here.  What is the deal?  It started out as a way of just keeping my confidence up while learning how to play golf.  It still is.  After all, I am still learning.  The truth is, I enjoy it, the writing.  I have found an unlimited amount of writing material here. 
    Another great side effect of the writing, so to speak, was the recording of our lives since 1999.  It only shows up every once in a while, between the descriptions of games and birdies that take place on the various golf courses I play, but, they are written down, recorded for all eternity, and I am so glad for that.
    Speaking of non-golf related material, here’s a slice...